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Laundry Dilemma

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JustALittleBitClueless · 04/04/2021 13:18

Please be kind, this is my first post and I would appreciate some guidance.

DH and I have been married six months (and nine days) and I'm really struggling with the laundry. Up until now, I've had to hand wash on the sink and do our sheets and pillowcases in the bath. It's a big effort to wring everything out, and some days I can't peg out on the line. I have an old wooden clothes horse and it's not up to much.

Well now we have bought a second hand twin tub, which is amazing, but I still don't have a clue what I am doing laundry wise.

Should I put the immersion on first and then connect the hose to the hot tap, and fill? Or should I connect the hose to the cold tap, and then use the twin tub heater? Which is more economical?

When I've washed the whites, do I need to add more powder when I put the coloureds in? Does anyone know? I'll be doing DH's work overalls last, of course.

Will it be okay to do the first spin back into the wash tub and then fill the spinner water tub with cold water from the tap, and move the output hose, so that the spinner water goes back into the sink? And how many times would I do the cold water thing? Until the water runs clear, I guess.

Sorry for all the questions, my mind is in a whirl. I could ask DM, but she lives three bus rides away and neither of us has a phone installed. Although we hope to have one once we've paid off the bank loan on the Cortina.

To add to the situation, I'm expecting, due on 1st July, I hope it's a boy. I don't know if it would be hygienic to wash the nappies first, given that they will need the hottest wash. But what about the other washing? I thought if the nappies were soaked in a bucket of Napisan and sluiced off beforehand, I could wash them first, and then do the baby's nightgowns, rompers, matinee coats, bonnets etc, towels, sheets and pillowcases, our clothes, then overalls last. I'd probably need to wash twice a week then.

But at the moment, is a weekly wash going to be enough, given that it might take several days to get things dry? We have a gas fire in the living room and a wall heater in the bedroom, so I probably need another clothes horse. I'm still working Monday to Friday, so have to do my housework at the weekend. At least DH spends Saturdays and Sundays fishing, which gets him out of my hair.

Reading this back, I may be overthinking things. But you'd think I'd be able to find a system that works. It's 1979, for goodness sake, not 1879. And I'm 19, with two 'A' levels, so I have a brain.

OP posts:
GoLightlyontheEarth · 04/04/2021 13:20

Is this a problem page from 1979?

SoupDragon · 04/04/2021 13:21
Confused
fitzbilly · 04/04/2021 13:22
Grin
WeeGobshiteBentBastard · 04/04/2021 13:23

Why do you "hope it's a boy"?

Alreadyinmypyjamas · 04/04/2021 13:24

I don't get it.

WeeGobshiteBentBastard · 04/04/2021 13:25

The solution is to get your dh to do the laundry, or hire a maid.

TheSpottedZebra · 04/04/2021 13:25

Umm, ha ha?

Bufferingkisses · 04/04/2021 13:25

My goodness, that sounds exactly how I remember my mother when I was small. Illustrates how much had changed in such a short time!

TheSpottedZebra · 04/04/2021 13:25

Is this some kind of 'modern women, stop moaning!' thing?

JustALittleBitClueless · 04/04/2021 13:26

@WeeGobshiteBentBastard, because we want a boy and a girl. A very fashionable view in the seventies Grin.

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Iwouldratherbemuckingout · 04/04/2021 13:26

Eh? What now?

PandaFluff · 04/04/2021 13:27

?

AcornAutumn · 04/04/2021 13:27

@Iwouldratherbemuckingout

Eh? What now?
Don't pay attention

It'll go quiet.

tinatsarina · 04/04/2021 13:30

Great post, I actually was reading thinking why have you got such an old machine? Then I read on and it clicked. I like reading about how housework was done before all the modern technology

itssquidstella · 04/04/2021 13:31

Oh god I'm so glad I wasn't born until 1985. I'd have resented this so much and been deemed a slattern by all my neighbours.

mnahmnah · 04/04/2021 13:35

I’m guessing you’ve found an old problem page from a 70s women’s magazine?

ParoxetineQueen · 04/04/2021 13:36

That was me!

queenMab99 · 04/04/2021 13:37

Try to obtain a Burco boiler for your nappies, it makes me very proud to put my lovely white nappies on the line, and they put the neighbours greyish rags, to shame, even though they have up to to date automatic washers! My baby was a month early and the kitchen wasn't ready, so my Hoover washer with a wringer had to be used in the backyard. My sister is going to pass on her twintub when she has managed to save up for an automatic! You will get into this laundry lark, with practice, but don't forget to put the outlet hose firmly in the sink, or you will flood the kitchen! Good luck!

JustALittleBitClueless · 04/04/2021 13:39

@itssquidstella, no resentment Smile

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MrsMoastyToasty · 04/04/2021 13:41

Don't forget to get some nappy liners . DM got some in when DSIS was born in 71. Apparently they are flushable.

queenMab99 · 04/04/2021 13:42

If you are really struggling you can always walk to the nearest phone box and ring your mum for advice, leave the door open and rock the pram from inside to keep the child quiet while you sob into the phone.

Shosha1 · 04/04/2021 13:42

My God. That was actually me in 1976! Although we didn't have a car and My H would have been either in the bookies or the pub at the weekend.

JustALittleBitClueless · 04/04/2021 13:43

@queenMab99, lucky you, getting your sister's twin tub! And thank you for the tip about the hose.

I'm so excited at the thought of a line of pristine nappies Smile

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JustALittleBitClueless · 04/04/2021 13:52

@MrsMoastyToasty, I will make sure nappy liners are on the list, together with some of those rubber pants. I'm going to fully kit out the baby from Mothercare, with my Maternity Grant. I think it's £20.

I could phone my mum's neighbour @queenMab99, she would be happy to go round to fetch DM to the phone. I'd need a fair few 2p pieces though. Baby is due in July, I hope I'll have my dilemma sorted by then.

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queenMab99 · 04/04/2021 13:52

Actually this has made me cry, remembering how happy I was, to have a house, a baby and a twin tub ( least said about adored husband the better)