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If you knew we were going to be in lockdown for a year ..what would you of done different???

274 replies

Kab30 · 29/03/2021 19:09

Just been thinking what I would of done differently...

Definitely try to loose weight
Definitely be more lenient on myself and try to chill a bit more
I should of decorated and gardened etcetcetcetc lol

However my five year old has kept me sane ..insane .happy and mad all in one xx

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LindaEllen · 30/03/2021 17:36

Me and DP dealt with the initial 3 weeks by basically having a massive chill with snacks, films, TV shows etc. When it extended past the 3 weeks we didn't get back out of the habit. I feel that we could have made so much more of the year. Instead we just got fat.

FizzyPink · 30/03/2021 17:38

You bought a house online without going to see it Shock

allfurcoatnoknickers · 30/03/2021 17:38

I would have bolted out of the city at the first sign of COVID and spent the summer in a beach house.

I would have bought the peloton sooner and not spent many weeks living on a diet of White Claw and ice cream sandwiches. I'm finally down to my pre-lockdown weight, but it's been a grind.

Georgyporky · 30/03/2021 17:42

Sent DH on a haircutting course.

Scbchl · 30/03/2021 17:43

Not gained all the weight back I'd lost the year before.

godmum56 · 30/03/2021 17:53

nothing zip nada

M2B19 · 30/03/2021 17:59

Not eaten everything/ordered everything/drank everything in sight. I’d have a lot more savings in the bank had I of done that. I also wish we’d got home improvements done sooner.

grapewine · 30/03/2021 18:01

@StopGo

I wish I'd realised the NHS would close down to anyone without Covid. I'd have fought harder and maybe, just maybe I wouldn't now be a widow and single parent. I'm just one of thousands.
This made me stop in my tracks. I'm so so sorry for your loss.
JaninaDuszejko · 30/03/2021 18:03

We did what we did to survive so I'm not inclined to regret too much, we've had it a lot easier than other families though and have benefitted from some aspects of lockdown (and working in pharma I knew it was never going to just be 3 weeks in April, we were talking about running trials of treatments and vaccines in the winter 20/21 wave in the spring last year).

Although I do wish we'd painted the garden furniture last spring. We finally did it last week and it's now looking great. Oh, and bought a lot more pasta, and had more takeaways from some of the local restaurants once they started opening up.

justwant2beamum · 30/03/2021 18:03

Started trying for a baby earlier. I really always wanted to be a fairly young mum 27/28 max. We waited and put off TTC to have one last holiday just us 2. Didn't get that 2020 and seems unlikely 2021. So started TTC, fell pregnant in January but had a missed miscarriage discovered at nearly 10 weeks. God knows how long it will take to fall pregnant again and if I can even have a successful pregnancy. I wish we started sooner 🙁

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knockles · 30/03/2021 18:08

Started my weight loss journey earlier .

alittleprivacy · 30/03/2021 18:11

I had recognised that this was a 12-18 month thing back last February. I set out a lot of home, health and fitness goals but got sick on March 18th and was very limited in what I could do until mid-June. I enjoyed the summer once things reopened, glad I could rebuild my previously very high levels of fitness and resting a lot in between. For me, lockdown only really started at the beginning of this year and I finally got to start on a lot of what I’d planned for this year.

RevolutionRadio · 30/03/2021 18:12

Been working throughout so no change to anything through lockdown except being able to go to the shows we had planned.

I could think of loads of stuff I would like to have done if I was furloughed.

InkieNecro · 30/03/2021 18:16

Ooh, I would have sent the children back to nursery as soon as it opened again, sorted out the garden sooner and decluttered before the charity shops shut.

If I had had full knowledge of what would happen in my life I would have immediately started the divorce proceedings after separating in Jan 2020 as they would almost be done by now and I wouldn't have had my ex hanging around and stalking me as I would have been able to get a non molestation order sooner! Could have been in a position to move soon if I had done that Grin

leannetta · 30/03/2021 18:17

I wish I had published my book on weight loss sooner! Judging by the other responses I think I was a little late...🤔
Should have painted the bathroom, and I intended to learn French (or at least start!). Hindsight eh?

CuthbertDibbleandGrubb · 30/03/2021 18:18

Not come back from the monastery that I was in two weeks before the restrictions came about.

Aquarius1 · 30/03/2021 18:19

This!! And I’m glad I didn’t know it would be a whole year as the mental health effects would have been awful.

Aquarius1 · 30/03/2021 18:20

And yes training to be a hairdresser would’ve been a smart move

littlemissmagic · 30/03/2021 18:26

Bought more loungewear/joggers early on for comfy working from home. Thought it's not worth it for a few weeks.....

Mydogisagentleman · 30/03/2021 18:29

Another who would have got a. Job that offered furlough

UnholyStramash · 30/03/2021 18:29

More regular outdoor exercise. Shielding letters were too scary at the start. Obviously I can go out now but I don’t as much as I could. And I’m too fat.
I wish I’d focused more on learning a new language. I could have been fluent in Czech or Gaelic by now. Possibly.
I should have cleared more of the crap in the house at the start.

beginningoftheend · 30/03/2021 18:42

I wish I had just relocated at the start and taken the kids out to home ed.

BurbageBrook · 30/03/2021 18:43

Definitely bought desks and good office chairs straight away. Until around June/July we were still working from bed and the kitchen table!

GiBlues · 30/03/2021 18:46

Gone to see my grandparents every opportunity I could, despite them being extremely vulnerable and shielding.

They were both gone by Christmas (my Nan through cancer and my grandad through hospital acquired COVID and I lost those last precious few months with them.

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