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Disgusting things discovered on MN

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Pricklypear12 · 24/03/2021 14:34

During my time on MN I have read about some disgusting/unhygienic things that people do on a regular basis.

Examples are:
Letting dogs lick human plates
Washing dog bowls in dishwasher with regular dishes
Sharing bath water (seen this one today!)
Sucking snot out of a baby's nose (I somewhat get it but really think I could never)

What are some vile things you've read about on MN that are seemingly normal to those that post about them?

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marmitepasta · 24/03/2021 16:48

A new ish friend invited me over for dinner just over a year ago. At the end of the meal, we were instructed to hold out our plates so the dogs could lick them.
Thank god I haven't been able to go back because of corona!

DartmoorDoughnut · 24/03/2021 16:49

@CoalTit

I was just thinking the other day that it's been ages since I last saw anyone post "eeewww" or "boak" or "grim" on here. I was wondering where all the competitive daintiness had got to.
Love this competitive daintiness Grin
viques · 24/03/2021 16:53

Dry toilet paper, with a bit of wee or shit on it goes into the toilet, but where do the wet wipers put their wet wipes with a bit of wee or shit on? Do they double bag and incinerate it? Put it into a pedal bin? Drop it into a bucket of bleach? Please tell me you don’t flush it into our ancient sewer system.

HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 24/03/2021 16:55

I wash in hibiscrub,use disposable paper towels and have a salt enema after a jobbie
I had my fanny filled with jo malone candle melts

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 24/03/2021 16:57

Here’s a good one for the 🤮 brigade.
I heard it on R4, a very old lady telling a true story, when she was snowed in alone during WW2.
She’d not long had a baby, but her milk dried up and there was no way she could get out, snow was piled against the door. And there was nothing else to give the baby.

However, she did have an Alsatian dog, or rather bitch, that had recently had puppies..
I’ll leave you to work out the rest - will just add that the dog was quite happy to act as wet-nurse for a few days.

DoTheRightThing11 · 24/03/2021 16:58

I just googled dragon butter and munting and wish I didn't Shock Shock

1Morewineplease · 24/03/2021 16:58

When I was first pregnant, 27 years ago, I lapped up all the parent/baby magazines and I recall reading a study , done in Germany I think, whereby a number of families were asked to take part in an experiment over a period of time.

It involved the families being divided into two sets. One set was told to be as fastidiously clean as possible using sprays, wipes, avoiding dirt etc... and the other set involved just getting on with it eg, kids to play in dirt, mud, puddles, only wiping surfaces with a damp cloth, minimal washing etc...
Guess which group had more coughs, colds, diarrhoea, and so on? Yes... the families that almost germicided themselves.

As as aside, I recall, in the not too distant past, being urged by water authorities, govt etc... that we should be sharing baths, re-using water and so on to help with water shortages.

Daily towel, bedding washing is bonkers.
Dishwashers wash at much higher temperatures than hands could bear.
Jam makers regularly sterilise jars in a dishwasher.
Wet arse wipes are a recent phenomenon.

Judging by the ickiness felt by some MNetters re day-to-day living, I'm thinking of buying shares in a company that makes decontamination chambers!

averylongtimeago · 24/03/2021 17:01

Oh god please tell me it's teatime and icba to rtft no one has googled dragon butter? ShockConfused

Thefaceofboe · 24/03/2021 17:05

I can’t understand all you clean freaks who wash your bedding 4 times a week and don’t reuse towels? Do you not work??

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 24/03/2021 17:06

There was someone a few weeks ago who said rather than just wear clean leggings everyday, she sniffed them first to see whether they were okay.

That was probably a fetishist. They turn up here from time to time.

One disgusting thing I've learned from MN and certain people who infiltrate it is that there there are fetishists for fetishes I didn't even know existed. And I'm by no means an unworldly person.

Musicaldilemma · 24/03/2021 17:07

All the very posh people I know do 1-3 without second thought... you do realise that post war and during war generation had to perhaps share bath water and every scrap of food was “saved” that includes for the Labrador.

Januaryissodull · 24/03/2021 17:07

I find threads like this hilarious.

Some people are so prissy and precious.

I mean it is funny, but when you consider that there are people out there who are homeless, or have little money for heating to dry clothes and hot water, or people in other countries who don't even have access to clean running water. You could say that it's 'disgusting' that people actually care how often someone changes their towels and are so wasteful and ungrateful for the resources we have.

I don't have pets but I do do many of the so called disgusting things on here.

I often use my dcs bath water, why would I waste a tub of lovely hot fresh water? How dirty do people actually think it could be? My parents had multiple siblings who all shared a weekly bath, they've suffered no ill effects from it.

I wash towels once a week, I re-wear most of my clothes apart from underwear. Don't wash bedding weekly.

Things that are actually important are good hand and food hygiene.

I often find the people who are obsessed with hot washing their bedding can be very lacking in the hand washing department and clueless about how to store meat etc.

Sunflowers095 · 24/03/2021 17:08

@Pricklypear12

During my time on MN I have read about some disgusting/unhygienic things that people do on a regular basis.

Examples are:
Letting dogs lick human plates
Washing dog bowls in dishwasher with regular dishes
Sharing bath water (seen this one today!)
Sucking snot out of a baby's nose (I somewhat get it but really think I could never)

What are some vile things you've read about on MN that are seemingly normal to those that post about them?

Do you not understand how cleaning/washing works?

Like I get the baby snot one and sharing bath water but literally the plates get cleaned? Have you never eaten in a restaurant where you used utensils many other people used before? I'm so confused by this.

DoTheRightThing11 · 24/03/2021 17:08

@averylongtimeago

Oh god please tell me it's teatime and icba to rtft no one has googled dragon butter? ShockConfused
Unfortunately I googled both. I'm now frightened of how my search history looks and feel sick!

How do these things even come up in threads Confused

YouSingIt · 24/03/2021 17:13

@Janaih

Whats wrong with putting animal food bowls in the dishwasher? It sterilises everything in it.
No it doesn't.
Dogmum81 · 24/03/2021 17:13

@KizzyWayfarer

DH has very hot deep baths (no sense of water economy). I happily get in afterwards. When we had evenings to ourselves when the kids were younger we used to bath together sometimes. Do you know, occasionally we even have sex? The horror! Just think of the germs exchanged.
Thank god someone else does this!! We shower in a morning (separately in case someone has a melt down) and in the evenings we both want a bath and I have the temperature as hot as the sun and the hubby hates it hot so I wallow for a bit in hot water and then hubby jumps in after to wallow when it’s cooler! We also have sex too - we are minging 🤣

Dog licks our plates clean 🙈 we then put in the dishwasher on a hot wash or whatever the high setting is!

What’s dry wiping? Doesn’t everyone use toilet roll or do they mean wipes? I definitely don’t use wipes, as someone who works in the environmental sector they are the devil 🙈

Pretty sure I’m a tramp after reading this and doing most of it 🤣🤣🤣

NinePremium · 24/03/2021 17:13

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soditall56 · 24/03/2021 17:14

@Pricklypear12

During my time on MN I have read about some disgusting/unhygienic things that people do on a regular basis.

Examples are:
Letting dogs lick human plates
Washing dog bowls in dishwasher with regular dishes
Sharing bath water (seen this one today!)
Sucking snot out of a baby's nose (I somewhat get it but really think I could never)

What are some vile things you've read about on MN that are seemingly normal to those that post about them?

What about sharing a bath with your oh?
LemonMeringueThreePointOneFour · 24/03/2021 17:15

@Catwoman123

You could wet the tissue first then wipe which is what most people I know do and what I've taught my kids. Eww when thought if dry wiping Envy
How the fuck are you cognizant of how other people (other than your children and perhaps your parter) wipe their arse? Confused
Poppercot · 24/03/2021 17:17

healthland.time.com/2012/07/09/study-why-dogs-and-cats-make-babies-healthier/

Living with pets has been shown in studies to boost babies and kids immune systems. Short term ‘eww’ factor is actually helping us slovenly lot in the long term.

Januaryissodull · 24/03/2021 17:17

@Dogmum81 we do it too.

We shower anyway in the morning, but my family are fond of hot baths. So I'll gladly hop into the dcs bath water and so does dh.

I quite like being disgusting to be honest.

NinePremium · 24/03/2021 17:17

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PivotPivotPivottt · 24/03/2021 17:17

As soon as I saw this thread I thought it was going to be about dragon butter. I seen it mentioned again on a thread yesterday so I advance searched it to see if there was any posts explaining what it was as I've never been brave enough to Google. I couldn't find a single post that said what it is just loads that say DON'T GOOGLE DRAGON BUTTER!!! Then when people would ask what it was no one replies.

So I'll ask....what the hell is it? Grin. If there's no images I don't mind googling but ever since I got caught out with blue waffle and chicken fried rice about 10 years ago I've never been brave enough to Google something when advised not to Grin.

Chanjer · 24/03/2021 17:18

Never wanting to suck another humans snot out is one of the reasons I never wanted children

Cos yeah, you would do wouldn't you, was how it was explained to me when I first saw someone do it. This was without device. If I'd known there was a device I might have had kids Grin

MidsummersNightie · 24/03/2021 17:18

Sharing bath water, only if I get to go first

When I was a child, I used to go in first, then my two brothers.
And then with the addition of a bucket of hot water, my Dad.

Tin bath in front of the fire. Filled with a bucket from the geyser.

There were proper public baths down at the swimming pool, where for half a crown you could have a proper hot bath in a room with about 8 baths in it separated by screens. Them were definitely not the days.