Day 2 of speaking to a guy with a view to dating. DAY 2.
Have done 1 video call, to ensure there is no catfishing going on, he is very, very attractive, smart and funny.
Granted that the conversation has been really easy, for long periods of time and he's very responsive and keen but there are elements of his communication which are really off.
Whenever I throw something back and ask him why he's so 'expressive', his response is that he is very open and very 'live in the moment'. I read that as he speaks without thinking and is very good at the OLD thing.
He messaged instantly with kisses at the end of his messages and has continued.
He'll make a sexual comment and then 'lol' at the end of it.
He is very open about his 'feelings'.
He's very complimentary.
He can hold a fantastic conversation and then he'll make it sexual again.
He is certain there is 'something' between us.
He is very focused on my appearance and when he first answered the video call he was nervous because he didn't expect me to look like my pictures. I think he was very practiced with that nervousness and he's done the same routine before.
I'm attaching a couple of screenshots. I am certain he's lovebombing me. I'm not concerned, I can absolutely hold my own and I've kept my responses very light, a little playful but firm when necessary.
It'll be interesting to get other peoples opinion though.
Am I being jaded? 