Do you enjoy sex with your partner?

[Sanddownlane16]

My partner and I have been together for 2.5 years and have a 1 year old. When we have sex, I’m just waiting for it to be over. I can’t get off and when he touches me I cringe. He’s a good dad and we get on well and never argue and I do find him attractive. Anyone outside would think we have the perfect relationship. But Is this normal?

I can orgasm manual all the time but very rarely from intercourse, it has happened once or twice and was great but just cant get there that way, I read that was very common though

Yes we have a great sex life. DH makes sure I always come first. He is very loving. The sex just keeps getting better every year. Feel very lucky.

Always PIV sex but he will also make sure I orgasm through clitoral stimulation too. It turns him on.

Together 25 years and yes I enjoy sex. There’s a lot less of it now though.

@teezletangler - never had a multiple orgasm. One orgasm leaves me absolutely shattered,, can’t imagine more than one, it’d probably kill me 😂😂😂

We rarely have actual sex anymore. Usually just lots of foreplay. Since meno I find it too uncomfortable.

OP hopefully you have talked and things have improved 🤞

DH often gives me multiple orgasms via clitoral stimulation. He likes to make sure that I have been satisfied properly before he comes. He has always done this and I just assumed all men were like this.

@blowinahoolie

DH often gives me multiple orgasms via clitoral stimulation. He likes to make sure that I have been satisfied properly before he comes. He has always done this and I just assumed all men were like this.

No, not all men are like that. A lot of them don't give a shit whether the woman is satisfied, ime.

My two previous partners were same as DH. I have always been direct about what I want. They all obliged. Must have been lucky then🤷

You have to talk about what you like, to have great sex.

Life is too short for bad half hearted sex. I’ve had enjoyable quality sex with a number of lovers (early 40s, so l use dated language) over the years.

In the past, l have been criticised on MN for having a little discreet discussion first. One poster even described me as shitty! I won’t have sex with someone who will not go down on me. My body and if someone wants to share it, that can be lovely, but my rules.

Sorry no i don’t think this is normal at all, especially after only 2.5 years!
Do you think the relationship was rushed and you kind of missed the honeymoon period?

You shouldn’t cringe when your partner touches you.

I’ve been with DH 13 years and still love sex with him. We have it as often as possible, usually once a day, and we have 3 DC.

We don't have it as often as we should, but when we do it's amazing. He always puts a lot of effort in. Used to be several times a week.

Hoping to get more day time sessions in next week once schools are back 😂