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Gotten

109 replies

Catlover77 · 12/03/2021 19:40

AIBU to want to scream ‘it is not a word’ every time I read it on here? I have just read four threads with it in. All four people cannot possibly be American!

OP posts:
Palavah · 12/03/2021 19:41

Like much American English, it used to be part of common British English usage. It's arguably correct. Or, not incorrect.

Finfintytint · 12/03/2021 19:43

It’s Old English and was retained by American settlers from England. It’s originally English.

GreenlandTheMovie · 12/03/2021 19:43

Hate it. Yes, we all know it used to be part of American English at one and is supposedly grammatically correct (as it got) when used in the past tense. But it fell out of use along with many quaint Americanisms, but some people think they're all trendy if they use it and argue for how wonderful it is.

Should we also start using verbs as adjectives, such as "tan" and "I'm chill" as well?

NuniaBeeswax · 12/03/2021 19:45

It's not American though.

WinstonsWeirdVole · 12/03/2021 19:45

It’s Old English and was retained by American settlers from England. It’s originally English.

True dat. I personally still don’t like it much either!

Chunkymenrock · 12/03/2021 19:47

I loathe it. It's completely unnecessary. I instantly stop reading threads if I come across it.

Mydogdoesntlisten · 12/03/2021 19:48

Agree.
I also hate likely as in we'll likely be eating chips for tea.
We are likely to be eating chips for tea or it is likely we'll have chips for tea, that's fine.
Maybe that one's just me though.

shouldistop · 12/03/2021 19:49

Oh ffs this again? It's commonly used in Scotland and probably other parts of the uk.

Finfintytint · 12/03/2021 19:51

Yes. Don’t like it either but it is what it is. My son spoke about his closet and I’m afraid I was close to murder. It’s a fucking wardrobe but has origins in the old French meaning of enclosed space.

PicsInRed · 12/03/2021 19:52

It's used in OZ and NZ too - my most felicitously antipodean apologies. We must have all gotten carried away. Grin

Now. Let's have a stern word about "whilst" and "amongst". You can't all be 16th century bards!

AnExcellentWalker · 12/03/2021 19:52

It may be old English. But so are fall, eyeglasses, muss, & chore (from charwoman). And those have largely fallen out of common usage in the British English tongue.

changi · 12/03/2021 19:52

Apparently, it was in common use in Britain in the 18th century but what has suddenly triggered its re-emergence over the last couple of years?

thistimelastweek · 12/03/2021 19:53

It was good enough for Shakespeare

drumandthebass · 12/03/2021 19:53

Don't get me started on this. It gives me the rage Angry

HungryForSnacks · 12/03/2021 19:54

I've gotten used to it now

GintyMcGinty · 12/03/2021 19:56

Amazingly people in different parts of the UK speak with different dialects.

Some may even use gotten.

AnneTwacky · 12/03/2021 19:57

As others have said gotten is not an Americanism, it's Old English.

It's the same grammatical rule as forgot/ forgotten.

There is a slight distinction between got (I have one) and gotten ( I have gone and picked one up) and that alone makes it useful.

LawnFever · 12/03/2021 19:59

Don’t care if it’s old English or what it is, I hate it

Thimbleberries · 12/03/2021 20:00

also common in Canada, Scotland, NZ, Australia, etc - not everyone who uses it is American. And yes, lots of posters here who have spent time or grown up in other parts of the world. Why judge something so trivial? It's more logical that 'got', really. You use it in exactly the same way as forget, forgot, forgotten.

Armi · 12/03/2021 20:00

I hate it, too.

GottenGottenGotten · 12/03/2021 20:00

YABVU.

It's a valid word. It's in common use in the UK (although not everywhere).

It has been used in my corner of the country all my life (and longer), and I'm nearly half a century old.

Do you have the same issue with 'forgotten'? I'm assuming not, because it is commonly used where you live. Gotten is commonly used where I live. What's the difference?

EarringsandLipstick · 12/03/2021 20:00

I also hate likely as in we'll likely be eating chips for tea.

These threads appear with such regularity on MN, you'd think no-one understood the concept of regional variations.

The above phrase for example is extremely commonly used in certain parts of Ireland including parts of the North and Midlands / border counties.

IsFuzzyBeagMise · 12/03/2021 20:02

It's also in Hiberno-English (the English spoken in Ireland).

I think we should be tolerant of different dialects of English.

NuniaBeeswax · 12/03/2021 20:02

Has anyone raged about "can I get" yet?

makingmammaries · 12/03/2021 20:03

What about “hate on” and similar crappy random prepositions?