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Gotten

109 replies

Catlover77 · 12/03/2021 19:40

AIBU to want to scream ‘it is not a word’ every time I read it on here? I have just read four threads with it in. All four people cannot possibly be American!

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MrsMop1964 · 12/03/2021 20:42

I'm not fond of it apart from in the phrase 'ill- gotten gains'.

HeronLanyon · 12/03/2021 20:50

Omg and forgotten. Was going to say I’d forgotten all about Ill-gotten and there it was staring me in the face.

IsFuzzyBeagMise · 12/03/2021 20:51

@HeronLanyon

In fact so many be words are quite beautiful when you think about them like ‘bewildered’ ‘bemused’ - its ‘psychology’ is very human and comforting somehow. Begorra.
Begorra! Don't people get very worked up about words.
eaglejulesk · 12/03/2021 20:57

YABU as it is a word, whether you like it or not.

EileenGC · 12/03/2021 21:00

Was going to say I’d forgotten

But that's the only correct way of saying it. It's either I forgot or I'd forgotten. I'd forgot is incorrect.

Jumpers268 · 12/03/2021 21:01

But it is a word. I can't imagine not reading something just because someone wrote "gotten" or getting so much rage because of it Confused. I've gotten so much amusement from this thread.

HeronLanyon · 12/03/2021 21:03

If it is Beget begotten beget begat - then is could/should be forget, forgotten, forget forgat. I may start a private forgat campaign. Once I work out what it may mean

Anoisagusaris · 12/03/2021 21:03

As a previous person said it’s used in Hiberno-English. I suppose when a country’s native language is replaced by that of a foreign ruling nation, variations will develop Hmm.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 12/03/2021 21:08

@HeronLanyon

If it is Beget begotten beget begat - then is could/should be forget, forgotten, forget forgat. I may start a private forgat campaign. Once I work out what it may mean
There is lots of "but x is like that so this should be like that too, logically!" In English language😂
Gotten
amusedbush · 12/03/2021 21:11

‘Gotten’ is used in Scotland. I didn’t know it bothered people outwith (Wink) Scotland until I started using MN.

HeronLanyon · 12/03/2021 21:16

. SchrodingersImm
That’s great.
Think I’d seen that ages ago but forgat it. Clever.

LAgeDeRaisin · 12/03/2021 21:21

I used it in a thread recently and I'm Scottish. Somebody, perhaps the OP, was grievously offended.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 12/03/2021 21:22

@HeronLanyon

. SchrodingersImm That’s great. Think I’d seen that ages ago but forgat it. Clever.
😂 keep on it, it might catch on
AdaFuckingShelby · 12/03/2021 21:25

Gifted. It gifts me the rage.

PeteWicksSexyPirate · 12/03/2021 21:30

@Chunkymenrock

I loathe it. It's completely unnecessary. I instantly stop reading threads if I come across it.
Well you don’t, because you did and you didn’t.
Dobbyismyfavourite · 12/03/2021 21:35

I really dislike gotten too.

@PicsInRed Oh dear you wouldn't like me as I use whilst and amongst at work regularly. Language is a funny old thing at times.

PigeonPants · 12/03/2021 21:37

I submit that Harry's actions are defensible, M'Lud. Whilst "spelt" or "amongst" might seem quaint to an American English speaker, they don't sound incorrect. "Got" as a past participle - e.g. "things have got better since we moved to California" does sound wrong, although it's not. He would not have wanted Oprah to have gotten confused.

There are worse things he could have said. ("Gots milk?" "No, gotta get some!")

I saw an MP tweet "if you wanna disagree with me..." the other day. Shocking! Shock

GreenlandTheMovie · 12/03/2021 22:09

@Anoisagusaris

As a previous person said it’s used in Hiberno-English. I suppose when a country’s native language is replaced by that of a foreign ruling nation, variations will develop Hmm.
Which language was that then? Gaelic? Old Norse? Rather different...

I'm Scottish, never heard "gotten" here until recently, and mainly said by English people. Is it a west coast thing perhaps?

Brogues · 12/03/2021 22:18

It’s an actual word in use in the UK today? It’s not like alot which is not and never should be a word. Mind you, our school news letter mentioned ques today doh!

Strangekindofwoman · 12/03/2021 22:21

YABU to want to scream because some people speak differently to you.

Get a fucking life.

VeniVidiWeeWee · 12/03/2021 22:29

Anyone else dislike the current usage of "decimate"?

KatherineJaneway · 12/03/2021 22:30

That's nothing compared to 'jacket pots' and 'tinned toms'

Jumpers268 · 12/03/2021 22:32

@Brogues I went out with a guy that wrote "alot". It drove me nuts, as it really isn't a word!

campion · 12/03/2021 22:35

PigeonPants
"things have got better since we moved to California" does sound wrong

No it doesn't. Mind you,William keeps saying "...for Catherine and I..." so the Queen's English has passed the pair of them by!

I do agree with you about the 'wanna' tweet.I hope it wasn't your MP. Or mine. I think you should submit a complaint to the Speaker Grin

amusedbush · 13/03/2021 01:45

@GreenlandTheMovie

Nope, I live in Glasgow now but I’m from Edinburgh and I have always said (and heard!) ‘gotten’. Totally normal on the east coast, too.