@GottogetaGRC
But I will still be doing it, despite my very poor mental health around the issue. That is my reality. Or should I tick employed
Do you get treated as employed by society?
When society sees you, what do they see?
They don't see a male when they see me.
Well, if you want another alternative I most certainly look younger than I am.
I have huge anxiety about my age as well (being a certain age and unemployed and female is certainly an issue). And most people are surprised to discover my real age. I have been known to lie about it.
However, I will tick the correct box. Why?
Because, I know damn well what my age is, my doctor also knows what my age is because my body doesn't let me forget how old I am. This is the joy experienced by most every menopausal woman when they also reach the age when other age related issues coincide.
I also know that my area needs to know just how many females of my age are in the area to plan for the needs due to my age (the age that I do not look). If I lie on this census, what gives me the right to complain that my regional health authority is not providing me enough services for my needs.
The fact that I am unemployed also indicates to them that I cannot surely afford private services. And it also then allows my borough to realise there is now a lot of unemployed women of my age group who need services to get work (to push past any discrimination that me in my group my encounter, and do encounter).
For instance, courses to assist me to get a job that are flexible enough to also fit my childcare needs. Something, the census also tells my borough - that I was a 'geriatric mother'. yes... that is indeed what we are called if you are over whatever it is 30/35/ whatever age it is.
So. Yes. while society sees me as a younger woman because I don't display the usual age cues, I know that I am not as young as I look.
And it makes a difference with the census.