Sorry, just going to answer the questions presented. Thank you for the feedback so far - I'm not trying to get anyone to say I'm pregnant, but I guess I'm just interested if stress is a common cause of a missed period? I've never had one before.
It sounds like a car crash. Within a month (despite lockdown) you’ve had an open relationship, slept with someone else, started counselling and then decided to buy a house.
We've been talking about buying a house for about 6mo, sorry it probably wasn't especially related but I wanted to say it to show things were getting better.
So was your period already late when you slept with him? So you were expecting it any day and assumed you were save? Finding the chronology a bit hard to follow.
Yes, period was already a little late hence why I think it might be stress (?). But this is the latest it's ever been.
So you slept with the other guy after your period was due? Are you usually fairly regular? Have you had unprotected sex with your husband or anyone else in January?
Yes slept with him after it was due. Usually very regular, mostly anytime from the end of a month to the beginning (but always within a 5ish day span and will always be the same amount of days since the end of my period. It's just sometimes the length is different, e.g. four days vs three days bleeding). I have had unprotected sex with my husband I think once within the time frame, but he also pulled out.
Are you confused if it would be your husbands or the new guy?
I guess both, but one would (obviously) be a better option whatever choice we made.
Why would you put yourself and your husband’s health at risk by having unprotected sex, open marriage or otherwise???
I acknowledged it was an error. I'm going to counselling for sexual insecurity and boundary problems, as this has further highlighted a problem. I'm aware I fucked up.