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Reporting neighbours for reserving a parking space with cones

248 replies

YodaBabe · 16/02/2021 10:27

Fully happy to admit I Abu, obviously too much time on my hands.

We live on street where it's all street parking for terraced housing. The couple opposite everyday the lady leaves the house, man runs out with parking cones to save the parking space. They have upgraded to parking cones it used to be the wheelie bins.

Aibu to report them to the council? Parking ban be limited but you can usually park a few houses up or down and most times outside your own home.

It just really riles me and to be honest it's dangerous.

Dh thinks I'm being a busy body

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crazycatgal · 16/02/2021 11:16

My friend's neighbours were doing this. She moved the cones and parked there (as she was entitled to). This resulted in the neighbours who had put the cones out shouting at my friend and her flatmate and becoming quite aggressive.

Seymour5 · 16/02/2021 11:16

My daughter lived on a terraced street with no off street parking. Her next door neighbours had four cars, one each for parents, and two for the sons. When she worked late shifts (nurse) it was often impossible to find a space even in the next street.

Part of the problem was permit parking in streets nearby, so the overspill affected her street. She'd have happily paid for a permit, especially as they were limited to two per household.

EL8888 · 16/02/2021 11:17

I vote move the cones. If they moan then direct them to an estate agents, where they can buy a house with a drive. No one made them live on a terraced road. If they have an actual disability, then they can go through the council re a ring fences space outside their house

mumwon · 16/02/2021 11:18

off subject
how would you manage to talk to someone at council? If we are lucky we only get as far as what is laughingly called customer (non) service?
getting through to any department at the best of times is difficult & takes ages (leave a message & we will get back to you! yeah right!) at the moment...

TSSDNCOP · 16/02/2021 11:19

If it stopped me parking I’d move the cones. Otherwise I’d let them get on with it. It takes a commitment I couldn’t be arsed with.

timeisnotaline · 16/02/2021 11:22

[quote YodaBabe]@ChonkyChook he sprints! There is a real danger some days of a flash from under his dressing gown the speed he moves Smile[/quote]
Ah, that’s why you’re watching. Move the cones and see how fast he runs then? Grin

LindaEllen · 16/02/2021 11:23

Don't report, there's no point. Simply move the cones if you cannot park anywhere else. Until it actually affects you, don't even think about it.

tttigress · 16/02/2021 11:24

YANBU they don't own the road.

There are so many parking related threads on here you would think councils would get a grip on on-street parking.

Gatehouse77 · 16/02/2021 11:26

I wouldn't report them but I wouldn't hesitate to move them if I needed to.

tttigress · 16/02/2021 11:26

@Seymour5

My daughter lived on a terraced street with no off street parking. Her next door neighbours had four cars, one each for parents, and two for the sons. When she worked late shifts (nurse) it was often impossible to find a space even in the next street.

Part of the problem was permit parking in streets nearby, so the overspill affected her street. She'd have happily paid for a permit, especially as they were limited to two per household.

I think a lot of areas are at the point where permit parking is needed.

4 cars per household parked on the street should not be allowed.

Crankley · 16/02/2021 11:28

Reporting to the Council would be ridiculous, not to mention pointless. If you want to park there, as everyone has said, just move the cones.

VinylDetective · 16/02/2021 11:31

@Justcallmebebes

I'd just park and run over the cones in the process
They get stuck under the car if you do this. Bitter experience.
Fairyliz · 16/02/2021 11:32

I’m always bemused when people say they are going to report things, can anyone actually get through on the phones to an organisation/ company and find someone to help?
Currently trying to get through to doctors/ building society/lettings agent/ broadband provider and a couple of companies I have purchased from. All of them are ‘experiencing high levels of calls’ or ‘working from home’. So much so that nobody ever answers.

PeggyHill · 16/02/2021 11:32

If you're nice, move the cones. If you're not so nice, run them over. I could understand either course action.

hansgrueber · 16/02/2021 11:32

@TheLightSideOfTheMoon

Just move the cones.

Stack them neatly by their front door.

Stack them in your house to stop her using them illegally and park a vehicle there. If she has a disability it's not her place to reserve parking, that's the Council's job to assess her claim of disability.
Timbucktime · 16/02/2021 11:33

Why do you think she works for the NHS just because she comes and goes at different times?

ThePluckOfTheCoward · 16/02/2021 11:33

Unless it affects you directly (and it doesn't sound like it does) then ignore it. There is no need to report as it doesn't sound like it is affecting anyone else and if she is working late shifts for the NHS, would you really begrudge her being able to park outside her home late at night? Just breathe and let it go.

FortunesFave · 16/02/2021 11:34

My FIL has started doing this. He runs out in the morning every morning. the thing is, he doesn't even need the space! He has a massive drive..he just doesn't want people parking outside his house.

missingeu · 16/02/2021 11:34

I would move the cones if there was no where else to park. I'm NHS and don't expect to have my own parking space.

If I was feeling naughty I might put the cones closer together so they unable to use the space.

Chewingle · 16/02/2021 11:35

Op

Use all this time on your hands for some self-reflection.

About how you can use your time more productively and not be so small minded

Alwayswrongneverright · 16/02/2021 11:35

I'd keep moving the cones around the street, ideally getting other neighbours in on the game, I'm sure they'd soon get fed up of trying to find them 😂

Chewingle · 16/02/2021 11:36

The thought of reporting and wasting council time without first having a conversation as adults or even writing a note, seems so bizarre to me

VinylDetective · 16/02/2021 11:36

The reporting bemuses me too. Report to who? It reminds me of primary school when sanctimonious kids used to say “I’m telling miss on you”. It seems some people haven’t grown up.

moonpig23 · 16/02/2021 11:39

I would just move the cones. In fact i'd probably hide them.

I work for a local authority in the complaints department. We do actually get a lot of complaints of this nature.

ScrambledSmegs · 16/02/2021 11:41

Decorate the cones. Maybe with a nice hat, and some googly eyes.

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