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Midwives told to stop using terms such as 'breastfeeding' and 'breastmilk'

940 replies

MissMoped · 09/02/2021 21:00

because it’s not gender inclusive language, I believe with particular reference to the transexual debate.

This is at Brighton and Sussex nhs trust btw, good to know NHS money is being spent wisely btw, poring over the “incorrect” use of language.

The word “mother” apparently should not be used on its own; instead “mother or birthing parent” (um, isn’t that a mother?).

Breast milk and breastfeeding is to be replace by “breast/chest milk” or “milk from the feeding parent”. “Woman” should be replaced with “woman or person”.

Gobsmacked.

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TheRealParsnip · 14/02/2021 10:56

Until such a day that trans women can give birth, which will be by some artificial alterations/reductions/insertions to their bodies (as they were born male), it is WOMEN that give birth and this word should be used. One one hand trans women want special recognition and rights and yet they also say they are women. Which one is it?

gardenbird48 · 14/02/2021 13:44

Until they get ignored and talked over and pushed aside and told to ‘be kind’ and put everyone else’s feelings first, transwomen cannot claim an authentic female experience (and tbf until their bodies have the same set of biological functions still not)

Impatiens · 14/02/2021 14:49

Apart from the one case I'm aware of in the UK, how many other transmen have given birth? And how do they manage their dysphoria - surely such a uniquely female experience as giving birth would be intolerable for them?

merrymouse · 14/02/2021 15:02

@Impatiens

Apart from the one case I'm aware of in the UK, how many other transmen have given birth? And how do they manage their dysphoria - surely such a uniquely female experience as giving birth would be intolerable for them?
Not clear, which raises questions about why this is part of a general policy.

I’m worried that it’s part of a general assumption that of course young women should feel dysphoric about their bodies to the extent that they find neutral words uncomfortable. This is ideology, not inclusivity.

Looking at what the trust have said - that ‘chest feeding’ is gender neutral, they really don’t appear to have thought about what words mean.

redpencil77 · 14/02/2021 23:01

They're pandering idiots is what they are

Impatiens · 15/02/2021 00:18

This is ideology, not inclusivity.

Exactly.

And any other argument aside, 'chest feeding' is a totally grotesque use of words.

Mally2020 · 15/02/2021 02:18

It's not just about gender inclusivity I personally as a Woman have never agreed with breast feeding, as to exclude bottle feeding is absurd.

Liquorishtoffee · 10/03/2021 16:59

So R4 now - only half listening.

Some person on there.m saying that ‘chest feeding’ is all porkie pies... P-news person I think... so did we imagine it then?

AryaStarkWolf · 11/03/2021 10:56

@gardenbird48

Until they get ignored and talked over and pushed aside and told to ‘be kind’ and put everyone else’s feelings first, transwomen cannot claim an authentic female experience (and tbf until their bodies have the same set of biological functions still not)
Yep yep yep
OneInEight · 11/03/2021 11:11

Wondering if I now should say I had chest cancer instead of breast cancer. And, if so, what on earth we should call ovarian cancer.

dripfeeder · 11/03/2021 11:51

@OneInEight

Wondering if I now should say I had chest cancer instead of breast cancer. And, if so, what on earth we should call ovarian cancer.
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I came to comment exactly this.

SenecaTrewe · 11/03/2021 11:54

"Doctor! I have a terrible pain in my chest!"

"Come straight to A&E"

versus

"Doctor! I have a terrible pain in my breast!"

"Here's some antibiotics. It'll be mastitis."

Thecatonthemat · 11/03/2021 12:41

Liquorishtoffee which programme was that?

toffeebutterpopcorn · 11/03/2021 12:47

Must have been the morning show - sometime before 7:30 (sorry I can’t be more precise).

Foodroofandfamily · 11/03/2021 18:04

Oh ffs. Erosion of women hear we come.

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