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Lounge or living room?

260 replies

Sunshineonarainydayy · 02/02/2021 20:44

Do you think one is more posh to say than the other?
If so,
YABU living room is more posh
YANBU lounge is more posh

OP posts:
caperplips · 03/02/2021 12:27

we say sitting room
I have never called it a lounge or living room
We also have a sun room!

RincewindsHat · 03/02/2021 12:28

Another one for 'front room' here even though it is not at the front of the house anymore...I would use 'living room' otherwise.

username44416 · 03/02/2021 12:31

Lounge and settee - both very non you.

AryaStarkWolf · 03/02/2021 12:32

@burritofan

Trickaloo, it’s actually sitting room.
Yep sitting room here too
FitterHappierMoreProductive · 03/02/2021 12:35

Neither, sitting room

FitterHappierMoreProductive · 03/02/2021 12:38

We have a morning room too 😳 but that’s not really for the same purpose as a sitting room / lounge

Miltonj · 03/02/2021 12:41

Call it a front room, even if not at the front. From easy Yorkshire.

At a push I might say living room but absolutely never lounge or sitting room.

Miltonj · 03/02/2021 12:47

Also growing up, we'd often call it the other room because there were only two rooms downstairs.

TheGoogleMum · 03/02/2021 12:48

I use both, neither are posh! I dont use sitting room so I agree with others that must be the posh term

PickAChew · 03/02/2021 12:51

We have front room and other front room.

New builds seem to have relax! (which is basically space in the kitchen for a sofa) and, if they're expensive enough, a snug or family room.

ManicDreamPixie · 03/02/2021 12:53

Grew up in North West. Front room (never used - except for the occasional body), a smaller Living room - in which we ate, did homework, watched tv and argued. Now live in Oz. The house has a front room generally known as lounge room here (no tv), and used mainly when doing proper grown up dinner party type entertaining ( ie hardly ever). The back room is the family room, which is open plan with the kitchen & has the dining table, tv, sofas & very importantly- easy access to the bbq and the garden. Everything happens here. The use of snug in the UK baffles me in private houses. I always associate this with the term with pubs - a smaller, typically back room where you could have a quiet chat. And maybe bump into Ena Sharples sipping her port & lemon. In Oz, We generally go to the loo, but clean the toilets. I have noticed use of the Americanism, ‘washroom’ creeping in. Never hear anyone use lavatory or lav, both of which are an abomination.

Bluntness100 · 03/02/2021 12:55

I say living room. I write lounge because I’m lazy and it’s a one word.

No idea what’s posher.

5zeds · 03/02/2021 12:59

How is a lavatory an abomination?Confused

samanthawashington · 03/02/2021 13:00

I just say living room because that's what I do there. I don't lounge very often

PattyPan · 03/02/2021 13:01

@TeeBee

Neither term is posh. Sitting room is more correct. Drawing room is a room that is primarily used for entertaining, not for general, everyday living.
In what sense is it ‘correct’? I sit in the study and dining room too, and even on the loo Grin
TheKeatingFive · 03/02/2021 13:09

Neither are ‘posh’. Nancy Mitford is having several fits.

I’ve never said lounge though, always living room or front room.

Hobbesmanc · 03/02/2021 13:16

Lounges, settees, serviettes, lavatories - all the sign of someone aspiring to be a better class than they really are- lower middle middle at best and obvious giveaways that someone isn't top drawer. Especially if they have anti- maccassers on their draylon three piece suite

unmarkedbythat · 03/02/2021 13:25

Lounge is one of those words that sounds posher but isn't, I think.

Idk. Sitting room is the phrase I'd most associate with 'poshness'. I call ours the living room. The kids call it the front room which irritates me as it's our only living room so you don't need to differentiate between a front and back room. DH calls it "the room".

Eeeeeeeeeeeek · 03/02/2021 13:27

Sitting room
TV room and laundry room
As a by the by, I always thought serviettes were made from paper and napkins were made from linen or cloth?

Sbowiegirl · 03/02/2021 13:27

What is a morning room actually for?

WagnerTheWehrWolf · 03/02/2021 13:29

The lady of the house tends to her correspondence in the morning room. And it's where the housekeeper brings Cook's suggested menu for the week for her to approve.

hopingfrbetter · 03/02/2021 13:37

My parents did not bother to name the rooms. We had the kitchen (where everything happened), the room and the far room. I suspect we were not very posh :)

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 03/02/2021 13:38

Lounge!!!

percheron67 · 03/02/2021 13:42

Was taught never to say Lounge - tAirports or Hotels. Always Drawing Room at home.

TheWernethWife · 03/02/2021 13:42

North West here.

Front room for us, lounge sounds twee and naff.