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The most annoying habit your Uni refugee has ...

230 replies

Besswess88 · 01/02/2021 22:38

I’ll start.

So he’s been pretty good bless him, shit situation etc not knowing when he’ll be going back.

Using bowls that we don’t normally use because the rest are fermenting in his room.

Blocking the washing machine got 3 days with his washing, then handing it out over mine which is drying making my clothes and the room he has hung it in absolutely stink.

😭😭

OP posts:
MaxRushden · 01/02/2021 22:48

@Twistered

Oh my god! I'm sooooo sorry! I thought you were a uni student sharing with a refugee and being racist! Grin

I'm actually so bloody stupid . Wtf was I thinking Grin

I'm so glad you explained that, I couldn't for the life of me see where you were coming from 😄
seaclaidte · 01/02/2021 22:48

@Twistered

Oh my god! I'm sooooo sorry! I thought you were a uni student sharing with a refugee and being racist! Grin

I'm actually so bloody stupid . Wtf was I thinking Grin

Lmao

Same.

I posted. Then refreshed and saw the update.

My apologies OP.

lavenderlou · 01/02/2021 22:48

Leaving his incredibly smelly sweaty running gear lying about!

It's a really tough time for uni students though and he is pretty depressed so I'm learning to live with it and just offering to wash it for him frequently!).

tobee · 01/02/2021 22:49

Mumsnet is not really a caring sharing place these days is it? Confused

mouldyhouse101 · 01/02/2021 22:49

Well this wins the award for best thread of 2021 already.

Atalune · 01/02/2021 22:49

Jesus Christ. Where is the sense of humour!

I remember coming home from uni only to wash clothes, eat and sleep. That’s all I did. I was a horrible zombie.

Londonisburningg · 01/02/2021 22:49

@tobee it is. It’s just that the OP had “refugee” in the title, so some misunderstood and thought she was being horrible

Elieza · 01/02/2021 22:50

He left the wet washing in the machine for three days and then hung it on top of your freshly washed stuff to dry - 😱 nooooo.

You may have to bury him under the patio to avoid a repetition of this.

I hate the smell of fousty washing, yuk.

Corncorncorn · 01/02/2021 22:50

Fair play to the posters who misunderstood, both apologising.

ErrolTheDragon · 01/02/2021 22:50

Some of the responses are peculiar.Confused maybe some people who don't have uni age kids have no idea ...
Mine stayed put at uni over Xmas, we won't see her till summer now so no weird habits. The most annoying when she's home is probably making us turn the volume on the TV down and complaining if we're late to bed.Grin

Cadent · 01/02/2021 22:50

@Twistered

Oh my god! I'm sooooo sorry! I thought you were a uni student sharing with a refugee and being racist! Grin

I'm actually so bloody stupid . Wtf was I thinking Grin

Fair play to you for calling out racism though Smile albeit non-existent racism
MaxRushden · 01/02/2021 22:50

@Besswess88 well done for starting the most randomly hilarious thread of the day 😊

My uni refugee just sighs a lots and now cooks everything different to the way I do. Whilst sighing and possibly with a small shake of the head 😆

MsOgyny · 01/02/2021 22:50

I have nothing to add, but I do want to see if any others join the two that have extreme difficulties in comprehension - those two reactions to this very benign thread are fantastic Confused Grin

Twistered · 01/02/2021 22:51

Again apologies folks and op!
I don't usually jump in like that but there's been so many threads lately that have been goading I thought this was another.

GrinGrin

I still can't get over I thought you were complaining about your refugee mate in student halls! Grin
Stupid stupid stupid Grin

Nunoftheother · 01/02/2021 22:52

Also I have reported your post as spam.

Confused

It's no more spammy than 95% of the posts on MN!

MaxRushden · 01/02/2021 22:52

@Twistered @seaclaidte fair play to both of you! Glad this is all resolved 😊

mouldyhouse101 · 01/02/2021 22:52

@Twistered

Just imagining the look on your face when you realised what OP actually meant makes me chuckle

ErrolTheDragon · 01/02/2021 22:52

Ah, I xposted with the penitent misunderstanders.Grin

Stirmecrazy · 01/02/2021 22:53

I have never seen such a bizarre reaction to such an incidental thread. I will join you in your moan @Besswess88. The fact that my DS is completely nocturnal. I will leave a completely tidy kitchen at 11pm and come down to a bomb site the next morning as a result of my DS midnight/2am snack. Also to match the nocturnal I never see him before 2/3pm and then only in pyjamas. I probably wouldn’t recognise him fully dressed now!

Twistered · 01/02/2021 22:53

@MsOgyny

"extreme difficulties in comprehension"

^^ putting it mildly Grin

EverythingsComingUpRoses · 01/02/2021 22:54

Mine has started 'seasoning' my food for me because clearly I can't be trusted with the salt and pepper myself!

Half my food is now inedible because she adds soooooo much salt so it ' tastes of something'

-yes love, salt!!!!

hiddeneverythin · 01/02/2021 22:55

Love it! 🤣🤣🤣

Besswess88 · 01/02/2021 22:55

If it helps I am white and my son is mixed race? 🤣🤣 I don’t think it does.

Yes he left it in the machine for 3 fucking days and then squished my washing up on the airer and infected it with the smell.

He also sighs at my cooking (he no longer eats meat and I do - so mainly does his own cooking.

The other day I offered to make him a sandwich. He asked for cheese, lettuce, tomato, grapes - and fucking ketchup 🤢

OP posts:
Dannydevitoiloveyourart · 01/02/2021 22:55

@Twistered

Oh my god! I'm sooooo sorry! I thought you were a uni student sharing with a refugee and being racist! Grin

I'm actually so bloody stupid . Wtf was I thinking Grin

Ahaha this is exactly what I thought too - I was getting ready to report the thread until I saw the explanations.

Was so shocked there could be such casual xenophobia in a thread title Grin

Glad you got there before I made a tit of myself too Twistered

Nunoftheother · 01/02/2021 22:56

@ErrolTheDragon

Ah, I xposted with the penitent misunderstanders.Grin
Me too. Blush