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AIBU to think we need to have our dog PTS

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HastyPasty · 31/01/2021 07:55

Our dog has just attacked his sixth dog in the last two years and I am so distraught but I don't think we can carry on like this!

For background we adopted our dog when an elderly family member passed away two years ago. She was a complete recluse and the dog had never left her house/ garden or been trained. Despite that he loved our kids and they him and although dog was elderly (12 at the time) we thought we could give him a good home.

During the first week with us he attacked my brothers dog very badly (at this point we hadn't taken him out for a walk as we were getting him used to things). It was awful, there was no warning, he saw my brothers dog and just went for her. We did a lot of reading and spoke to a dog charity for some advise and then started taking him out for short walks. Then we realised how aggressive he is to other dogs. He seems to want to kill them all, the second he sees one he will try to attack. So far he has attacked -

  • My brothers dog
  • A drunk strangers dog who decided to bring his dog over despite me screaming at him not to
  • A small dog when he managed somehow to slip his harness and he nearly knocked the elderly owner over
  • A neighbours dog when he got out of a window, how he managed that I don't know but neighbour is utterly traumatised
  • Next doors dog when he actually dug a small tunnel under the fence to get to it (he had been doing this under a bush so neither of us noticed)

Then lastly, yesterday my adult child took the dog out and the dog managed to yank his lead out of his hand, escape and attack yet another dog.

It's honestly heartbreaking because my dog seems like the loveliest dog and we spend all our time together, but he is dangerous and so fast for an old boy.

Oh also since lock down he guards me. I think he got used to it being me and him during the day and hates the kids and DH being around and will growl and bark at them if they get too close to me when I am relaxing. He actually nearly went for DH the other day. This isn't constant, if I am up and about he's fine but if I'm laying on the sofa wathhing TV he starts.

Anyway I'm at a loss. DH is doing he usual let's wait and see (brilliant husband generally but does not do decisions like this and won't really discuss it) and I just would really appreciate other people's thoughts!

Oh PS I have tried a number of different muzzles and dog has managed to slip them all off in record time.

YANBU sadly dog is dangerous and needs to be PTS
YABU don't do it, try...

OP posts:
Bookwords · 03/02/2021 08:31

@Emeraldeyes20 he runs because he knows what the treatment bottle looks like and associates it with the treatment.

Dogs are only PTS once! So how would they have any concept?

Honestly, take your views off this threads, they're ridiculous.

If you come back OP, these are for you ThanksThanks

Karwomannghia · 03/02/2021 08:39

It’s the right thing to do.

User2378901 · 03/02/2021 09:50

He associates the flea treatment with an unpleasant experience. He doesn’t know that if he doesn’t get treated he might have an even more unpleasant one.
And a dog might not like going to the vets but that’s not because they think they might put them to sleep. They have absolutely no concept of the future or their own mortality.

Thinking of you OP. You are doing the right thing.

ChangedMyNameToday · 04/02/2021 12:46

Hi OP, sorry you're having to deal with such a difficult situation. I just thought to say I do wonder if it's worth asking the vet if it can be treated with painkillers, because given its age there could be underlying pain that's triggering it. Just to see if pain relief would make a difference.

BigPaperBag · 04/02/2021 15:31

You’ve let it attack 6 dogs???

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