To be discombobulated by DH’s compliment?

[DiscombobulatedDebbie]

After over 25 years of no compliments unless asked directly for one, he suddenly tells me in bed last night that I have ‘a very nice vagina’.

AIBU to wonder how many other ones he’s seen over the last 25 years to compare?

Some people find dirty talk difficult, It may have taken him 25 years to pluck up the courage to say something. Give him ten more years and he might comment on how great his penis feels inside you. By 2046 he'll be x-rated!

Who knows why he suddenly said it - well apart from him - maybe he saw/read/heard something about giving compliments and gave it a go!!

That is really sweet! What he means is it looks pretty and is comfortable and accommodating.

@Ihopeyourcakeisshit

Does he have an unattached brother?

This made me laugh out loud.

It's nice to know he appreciates you! I would laugh if it were me
.. but maybe lacking context OP?

From my view and after having had 4 kids, I would be wondering who he was talking to...haha : ) : )
Actually my DH said he liked my hair the other day, I better clarify that comment when I see him next!!

Maybe some guy talk and he realized he's a lucky bastard?

That's so sweet

I'm going to ask my DH why he has never said that to me

@Ihopeyourcakeisshit

Does he have an unattached brother?

😂🤣

@LizFlowers

That is really sweet! What he means is it looks pretty and is comfortable and accommodating.

Bloody hell don’t tell someone that they have a ‘comfortable and accommodating’ vagina! That’s ten times worse that what the OP’s DH said !!

How odd.

@crazeelala2u

Maybe some guy talk and he realized he's a lucky bastard?

What, when the lads were all discussing how unattractive they all find their own wives' vaginas?

I am just picturing him mustering up the courage to say it after, like, a decade, then lying back, arms crossed, thinking 'yeah, that slayed her. I fucking rock.'

@FreezerBird's post on p1 reminded me of the time FIL & MIL were having a meal out with MIL's siblings and their other halves....there was a silent pause in conversation round the table and FIL turned to one OF MIL'S sisters and asked "well now Mary, how's you vagina?"....he'd meant to enquire after her health following a recent attack of angina!! MIL was mortified and poor old Aunty Mary went as red as a beetroot!! 🤣🤣🤣

That is very cute. Do you think he’s been plucking up the courage for some polite dirty talk all these years? What are you going to say in return?!

@slidingdrawers this made me spit out my coffee
Seriously though, OP, you MUST think of a "compliment" to give him in return. Please keep us updated

Feeling sad that my genitals haven't been complemented.

Maybe because they now resemble a punched lasagne

@WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants

I'd be deeply suspicious

😂😂

Genuinely weeping at the punched lasagne!

Well how lovely. You must have been thrilled.

Better than patting it and “that’ll do, Pig”, I guess.

Haha, I always tell my husband he has a lovely penis. I think that's a nice compliment, but 25 years of no other compliments would lead me to divorce.

Very Alan Partridge

Sounds like he has been watching Naked Attraction....

Well you did ask!

Bless, he’s trying.