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AIBU?

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To let the kids play out at 8am on a Sunday?

177 replies

Oysterbabe · 24/01/2021 08:37

There's snow! It won't stick around for long, it's forecast to turn to rain in the next hour and is already starting to disappear. I let the kids out to build a snowman and play from 8, they were nagging from 6:30. They're aren't screaming but are laughing and making general playing noise. They are 3 and 5. It's lovely to see them having a bit of excitement and something different in their bored locked down lives. Is this unreasonable on the neighbours? We live in a private cul de sac with 10 other houses.
Are there really people who would want to deny small children the chance of a little bit of fun? We're usually very good neighbours and snow is a very infrequent occurrence here.

OP posts:
BigSandyBalls2015 · 24/01/2021 12:21

8am is not that early .... retired folk can have an afternoon nap if needed.

AlwaysLatte · 24/01/2021 12:22

If I woke up hear children playing in the snow I'd think it was a lovely sound (anyway it's a very special occasion when you're a child).

AlwaysLatte · 24/01/2021 12:23

I found two rice-grain sized pieces of snow outside this morning and now it's raining. 😢 🎻

Shitzngiggles · 24/01/2021 12:25

I loved hearing the neighbours kids outside this morning having fun. Its been a shit year for them, its lockdown and its snow. Let them have a little bit of fun.

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 24/01/2021 12:26

YABU to be rude and show no consideration for your neighbours, it's not just retired neighbours who are disturbed.

Not all 3 and 5 years old are up at 6am, children are entitled to sleep too.
Plus it's perfectly possible to be outside and not wake up the neighbours anyway!

Just don't moan when families who sleep later, both morning and evenings..., no longer bother being quiet when you put your own kids to bed.

I am so glad I don't live near anyone like the posters on here. You make it sound like it's normal to be a nuisance, thankfully it's not.

Vilanelle · 24/01/2021 12:27

Has anyone actually complained to u op

Wolfiefan · 24/01/2021 12:36

@Iknowwhatudidlastsummer
OP says 8. Not 6!

Brefugee · 24/01/2021 12:40

8am is not that early .... retired folk can have an afternoon nap if needed.

Jesus. H. Fucking. Christ.

Throwaway99 · 24/01/2021 12:40

@Iknowwhatudidlastsummer

YABU to be rude and show no consideration for your neighbours, it's not just retired neighbours who are disturbed.

Not all 3 and 5 years old are up at 6am, children are entitled to sleep too.
Plus it's perfectly possible to be outside and not wake up the neighbours anyway!

Just don't moan when families who sleep later, both morning and evenings..., no longer bother being quiet when you put your own kids to bed.

I am so glad I don't live near anyone like the posters on here. You make it sound like it's normal to be a nuisance, thankfully it's not.

Oh give over.
Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 24/01/2021 13:08

Stop pretending that all children are up at dawn, some children are asleep at 8am Hmm

The little digs at retired people pretending that they would be the only one being inconvenienced by unnecessary noise on a Sunday at 8am are getting ridiculous.

Just because you enjoy having your kids getting up early doesn't mean everybody is.

And again, don't come moaning if people are noisy when you try to put your kids to sleep, works both ways.

Wolfiefan · 24/01/2021 13:12

Jeez. We so rarely have snow. It’s not like the kids are out early every day. Confused

LizFlowers · 24/01/2021 13:16

In your back garden, yes, but I would have waited until a bit later in the morning as they are likely to be squealing a bit. They are very young, especially the little one. Did you want to be out in the back garden at that time?

( I never had that problem because mine wouldn't have been up then :-).)

MyDcAreMarvel · 24/01/2021 13:16

@ChooChooCho We went out at 6:45 this morning, and nextdoor (who don't have children) came out to play with us.
I hate to live near any of these killjoys who seem to only exist on Mumsnet.

Yes who needs those killjoys following guidance and saving lives.

aSofaNearYou · 24/01/2021 13:17

Stop pretending that all children are up at dawn, some children are asleep at 8am  The little digs at retired people pretending that they would be the only one being inconvenienced by unnecessary noise on a Sunday at 8am are getting ridiculous. Just because you enjoy having your kids getting up early doesn't mean everybody is. And again, don't come moaning if people are noisy when you try to put your kids to sleep, works both ways.

My DD isn't up at 8 and I do find it irritating when people habitually let their children disturb people in the mornings. I find it equally annoying when people are noisy after kids have gone to sleep (such as fireworks). I'm a considerate person and I find lack of consideration very annoying. I just genuinely would think it was fair enough on one of the very rare occasions it snows.

AndcalloffChristmas · 24/01/2021 13:23

Special circumstances today - YANBU!

lockdownconfused · 24/01/2021 13:26

We went out at 7.30 never let the kids play out early but we had fun in the snow!

HauntedPencil · 24/01/2021 13:34

I never do usually but today they went out at 8.30 - the snow won't be here long. I'm sure no one would mind

HauntedPencil · 24/01/2021 13:36

@Iknowwhatudidlastsummer

YABU to be rude and show no consideration for your neighbours, it's not just retired neighbours who are disturbed.

Not all 3 and 5 years old are up at 6am, children are entitled to sleep too.
Plus it's perfectly possible to be outside and not wake up the neighbours anyway!

Just don't moan when families who sleep later, both morning and evenings..., no longer bother being quiet when you put your own kids to bed.

I am so glad I don't live near anyone like the posters on here. You make it sound like it's normal to be a nuisance, thankfully it's not.

How intolerant.
HauntedPencil · 24/01/2021 13:38

I actually don't expect people to be quiet after 7 because I gave smaller kids, my neighbour has barbecues etc at this time on occasion.

superram · 24/01/2021 13:44

I’ve said yabu unreasonable but even though I’m the grumpiest person alive and hate noise. I’d smile at kids playing in the snow, even at 8am.

NailsNeedDoing · 24/01/2021 13:46

Normally I’d say it was too early on a Sunday, but the rules change when it snows.

Monstermissy36 · 24/01/2021 13:48

I would be annoyed if it woke me up... then I'd look out the window, see snow and my grumpy ice heart would melt! Kids should play in snow as soon as possible!

Allgirlskidsanddogs · 24/01/2021 13:59

Snow cancels all the usual rules about reasonableness. If it’s light enough to be out, go out, especially if it’s not due to be around for long.

Hope they enjoyed it.

ArchbishopOfBanterbury · 24/01/2021 14:05

It depends how screamy they are. If they're likely to wake the neighbours, 9 is kinder.

Deadringer · 24/01/2021 14:07

@NailsNeedDoing

Normally I’d say it was too early on a Sunday, but the rules change when it snows.
I agree