I try not to stalk threads toooo much. However, for those who still think that this is all morally OK, I'd like to present a slightly different/minority perspective in addition to my previous one...
DH and I work alternate shifts because of the cost of childcare. We do not qualify for any help beyond the 15 hours after the age of three, for various small print/administrative reasons.
I look after my kids during the day, and work and do the housework at night. I do not get time off for recreation/hobbies etc.
A few weeks ago, I filled out my tax return and sent off a large sum of money to HMRC. That is several hours of my life which I will never get back. It's a lot of money I will never get back, either.
I do not begrudge someone using that money (earned through MY efforts) to send a food parcel to a child from a poor family. What I do resent is some greedy f-ing CEO who probably earns more whilst he takes a poo at work than I do in a week creaming MY MONEY off the top, and sending out a food parcel like the ones we are discussing whilst pocketing the rest of the cash. I EARNED that money. It was supposed to be used WISELY. It was not supposed to pay for some top earner's brandy and cigars.
For anyone who thinks this is still somehow acceptable, consider these words whilst you send off your online tax return before the 31st of January...