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How does the Irish middle class compare to ours

566 replies

Norfolker · 04/01/2021 13:13

My sister in law is from the Republic & she says the class system in Ireland is there but less obvious than ours.. Not as many private schools but more subtle markers.
She also thinks their state education system is far superior so private schooling is unnecessary. Any Irish on here want to elaborate? I found it interesting.
YABU there is no difference between UK & ROI. Exact same class system no difference in markets.
YANBU different traits contribute to the Irish middle class system

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Danu2021 · 05/01/2021 10:13

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Danu2021 · 05/01/2021 10:18

@Pinkandwhiteblossom that new eye wateringly expensive school ''nord anglia'' in leopardstown claim on their website to be the only school in ireland that does IB, but in my day, St Andrew's did it. After looking at the fees for Nord Anglia (I only looked out of curiosity) the fees at st andrew's will look like loose change.

LizzieAnt · 05/01/2021 10:26

spelled/spelt?
I think they're both right Smile
You mentioned he's on the spectrum. If he has an asd diagnosis I shouldn't think he'd have a problem getting exemptions (I hope not anyway - my DS is the same, but a bit younger).
I know there are very good Disability Support Services at UCC and other NUI colleges...maybe contact them for advice around applications.

Danu2021 · 05/01/2021 10:37

Thanks Lizzie, he does have an ASD dx, he went to St Catherine's for a year before primary school. I think he has PDAS, specifically, so he ''presents'' very normally and even socially as long as he's happy, and then when he is asked to do something he isn't good at (Spanish) all hell breaks loose! So it looks to the outside world like Bold Brat Syndrome! I will look in to all of this as soon as the first is settled in! (to college).

It's good to know there are a few exceptions made and that there are supports. He doesn't identify as a boy with autism. He knows, but we don't discuss it. I don't want to hand him an excuse to dodge out of anything challenging.

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HeyGirlHeyBoy · 05/01/2021 10:39

Nord Anglia Confused What a strange name.

Danu2021 · 05/01/2021 10:45

I think it's a chain!

LizzieAnt · 05/01/2021 10:49

I hear you Danu2021. My DS has many PDA characteristics too.

Pinkandwhiteblossom · 05/01/2021 10:54

@Danu2021, even by U.K. standards those fees are cracked. They must be operating entirely outside the Irish system or something. Andrew’s certainly used to do the IB (my sister did IB art there). I’m sure KH or Columba’s did too - must have been a Protestant thing Grin

Pinkandwhiteblossom · 05/01/2021 10:56

@HeyGirlHeyBoy, aha - I stand corrected. I do think that % makes a difference to the fees though.

Danu2021 · 05/01/2021 10:57
Wine

You'll need that! Grin

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2021 10:59

I kept getting Nord Anglia ads for a while there. Those prices are insane. 😳

Danu2021 · 05/01/2021 11:05

A while ago they were looking for a vegan dinner lady. I saw the ad.

Danu2021 · 05/01/2021 11:05

I think the job had a posher title

HeyGirlHeyBoy · 05/01/2021 11:09

Oh the do of course blossom, see my link above for the amounts but I know from being in it a lot of that goes on admin staff, bills etc.

LadyfromtheBelleEpoque · 05/01/2021 11:10

I think it is very interesting Convents. I don’t remember learning much about religion (but we did attend chapel every morning).

I remember very forward thinking, proactive, intelligent women who pushed her very hard. The standards were very high but in London in the 80s they needed to be to compete with the public/private system. We were pushed to make our lives worthwhile and of value and that is a positive message for goals.

In the Irish league tables, I think State Convents nearly always lead or dominate the top. The pres/Loretos, etc.

I am really interested in how things change from the secondary sector to university for those who can comment - do you feel there is a big jump? I don’t think there is a big jump from a’levels to third level - the biggest jump for me was always from O’levels to a’level.

LadyfromtheBelleEpoque · 05/01/2021 11:11

Apologies typos - I don’t have my 🤓

HeyGirlHeyBoy · 05/01/2021 11:29

No, not a big jump but v different in terms of say critical thinking, arguing points instead of reeling off facts.

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2021 11:32

A while ago they were looking for a vegan dinner lady. I saw the ad.

Grin

Did she have to be Vegan herself?

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2021 11:34

I was educated in NI, then went to Trinity. I don’t think there was much of a difference (really) between those that had done A levels compared to LC. Uni is a step up regardless.

Candyfloss99 · 05/01/2021 11:38

It is exactly the same here in Ireland but people just don't care so don't talk about it.

HeyGirlHeyBoy · 05/01/2021 11:39

Vegan dinner lady Grin Peak notions.

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2021 11:41

It’s like the €900 coat in Dunnes from a few years ago Grin

Pinkandwhiteblossom · 05/01/2021 11:41

Peak notions is right.

Cacacoisfarraige · 05/01/2021 11:50

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Apollo3 · 05/01/2021 11:53

Someone put up a sign saying dry robes were banned and dry robes types

That's a joke. It's not actually a serious thing.