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Lockdowner35 · 02/01/2021 21:45

I would say

Pineapple on pizza is decent

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grassisjeweled · 02/01/2021 21:59

Overweight people are accountable for their health

ComtesseDeSpair · 02/01/2021 22:00

Special needs aside, parenting is only as difficult and consuming as you want to make it. I’ve yet to meet an adult who wasn’t toilet trained and only ate chicken nuggets. Honestly - by the time they’re 32 nobody will know or care whether they were breastfed or formula fed, had a WOHM or SAHM, were weaned on organic finger food, had regular attendance at baby sing-song classes, or were allowed lots of screen time. How we all eventually turn out is mostly nothing to do with the minutiae of parenting. Just do your best, don’t be actively abusive or neglectful, and your kid will turn out just fine. Stop judging others for what you perceive as shortcomings, and be a bit easier on yourself for your own.

hibbledibble · 02/01/2021 22:00

That no one should be assaulted while working, and that includes police officers.

ComtesseDeSpair · 02/01/2021 22:00

Also, hummus is overrated.

nearlynermal · 02/01/2021 22:00

I know loads of guys who are circumcised and none of them feels traumatised about it.

Echobelly · 02/01/2021 22:00

I don't particularly mind people setting off fireworks as long as its before about 10pm. And I do have a pet.

MillieEpple · 02/01/2021 22:01

Surrey is a wonderful county

bluebluezoo · 02/01/2021 22:01

That low carb is not the answer.

Butchyrestingface · 02/01/2021 22:01

That parents should automatically be willing to accommodate their 16+ kids having sex under their roof.

That any adult whose parent has a key to their house is in an unhealthy and co-dependent relationship with said parent.

Butchyrestingface · 02/01/2021 22:02

*Say clarify, I DISAGREE with those views, not agree with them. Grin Grin

thepeopleversuswork · 02/01/2021 22:02

That women are fundamentally better off in most ways not being in marriages or relationships with men.

Gandalf456 · 02/01/2021 22:02

I breastfed way past 1

FrostyChocolateMilkshake · 02/01/2021 22:03

@NCAficionado

I own a loo brush for every single loo AND a period bin next to them.
Same!

I don't understand the Mumsnet horror of owning a toilet brush

PearlclutchersInc · 02/01/2021 22:03

That I have no tolerance for noisy neighbours, at new year or any other time of year.

RUOKHon · 02/01/2021 22:04

I think it’s totally fine for a bride and groom to request cash rather than gifts. And also I have no problem at all with only being invited to the evening bit of the reception. That’s the best bit anyway.

minipie · 02/01/2021 22:04

Sleep training is better than an exhausted non functioning parent

Butchyrestingface · 02/01/2021 22:06

I think it’s totally fine for a bride and groom to request cash rather than gifts.

SING IT, SISTER!

Woahisme · 02/01/2021 22:06

@ComtesseDeSpair

Special needs aside, parenting is only as difficult and consuming as you want to make it. I’ve yet to meet an adult who wasn’t toilet trained and only ate chicken nuggets. Honestly - by the time they’re 32 nobody will know or care whether they were breastfed or formula fed, had a WOHM or SAHM, were weaned on organic finger food, had regular attendance at baby sing-song classes, or were allowed lots of screen time. How we all eventually turn out is mostly nothing to do with the minutiae of parenting. Just do your best, don’t be actively abusive or neglectful, and your kid will turn out just fine. Stop judging others for what you perceive as shortcomings, and be a bit easier on yourself for your own.
I actually think I need to hear this sometimes. Thank you Smile
thedishonthecoffeetable · 02/01/2021 22:06

Shower gel does get you clean

Seasaltyhair · 02/01/2021 22:06

Private schools are better than state ones.

Cats are horrible.

Leopard print scarfs are out of date

D4rwin · 02/01/2021 22:07

It's not OK to use family for childcare. You might make yourself feel better by pretending that your family is all lovely and caring and sharing. It's not. Its just cheeky fuckery

Piglet89 · 02/01/2021 22:07

That you should sleep train if you want to.

EwwwwDavid · 02/01/2021 22:07

That not everyone is obsessed with, or even thinks about class. I've only ever come across this on MN.

Woahisme · 02/01/2021 22:08

Disclaimer: not the abuse/neglect bit ot the judging bit. But the rest of it.

Piglet89 · 02/01/2021 22:08

Oh, and that all the “studies” saying sleep training damages your kid are utter bollocks.

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