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Shagging ‘on your own doorstep’

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Minecraft4life · 02/01/2021 19:29

Shagging, casually, a dad from your kids school- I’m thinking DISASTER written all over it. My friend thinks (with her fanny!) that if they are both on the same page it’ll be a bit of fun. I think it’ll be five years of cringing on the school run or in the village shop.
AIBU?

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Dagnabit · 02/01/2021 20:56

It depends on the position really. I imagine standing up, from behind would work well on the doorstep but would much depend on the recent weather....

Minecraft4life · 02/01/2021 20:56

@VinylDetective

The kid wouldn’t be aware as it would be a casual physical thing

How on earth can you possibly know that?

I imagine most parents don’t discuss their sex lives with their primary aged kids.
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Clevererthanyou · 02/01/2021 20:57

I don't think there is such a thing as sexual shame anymore where I live Op. There's lots of well known Captain Shagger types (male and female) and nobody bats an eyelid.
I couldn't do it but I've been told I was born in the wrong generation Grin

tillyandmilly · 02/01/2021 20:58

revolting - end of

Minecraft4life · 02/01/2021 21:01

@tillyandmilly

revolting - end of
😂😂😂 wtf?! Which bit? The shagging? The casual shagging? The doorstep shagging? All of the shagging?
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NCAficionado · 02/01/2021 21:01

NameChanged for this as I’m not brave Grin

I’m currently shagging a neighbour who is also a school dad. Always been mates, one night it sort of just happened!

Eventually I think he’ll probably meet someone more serious, but for now daily texts and the odd bunk up is nice! Adults so long as they go in with an open mind can easily shag and move on so don’t stop your friend but do pull her up if she’s going for the feels!

Only awkward moment was when I saw his ex at pick up, we had a lovely chat and the entire time all I could think was “I’ve seen your ex’s willy” stupid childish brain 😂

She categorically doesn’t want him back though or I wouldn’t be!

Minecraft4life · 02/01/2021 21:01

@Clevererthanyou

I don't think there is such a thing as sexual shame anymore where I live Op. There's lots of well known Captain Shagger types (male and female) and nobody bats an eyelid. I couldn't do it but I've been told I was born in the wrong generation Grin
Captain shagger! 😂😂😂
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Monstermissy36 · 02/01/2021 21:02

@Minecraft4life

Are you all miserable twats?
😂😂😂
MazAds · 02/01/2021 21:07

@ilovethecold

😂😂😂 just going to sit here and read the comments ' hand me doritoes '
I’ve got my popcorn 🍿🤣
calamityjam · 02/01/2021 21:16

My Sil did this. They stayed together years and bought a house and have a lovely ds. It can work

NiceGerbil · 02/01/2021 21:18

I'm not sure why the ones who are saying why not to the shagging are being called miserable Grin

Minecraft4life · 02/01/2021 21:36

@NiceGerbil

I'm not sure why the ones who are saying why not to the shagging are being called miserable Grin
They aren’t. The “are you all twats” was a reply to “are you all teenage parents”
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