Shagging ‘on your own doorstep’

[Minecraft4life]

Shagging, casually, a dad from your kids school- I’m thinking DISASTER written all over it. My friend thinks (with her fanny!) that if they are both on the same page it’ll be a bit of fun. I think it’ll be five years of cringing on the school run or in the village shop.
AIBU?

You sound like a curtain twitcher. It really is none of your business who shags who.

Gosh. Did she ask you to save her? I’m guessing not.

Are you a bit envious op? That she’s met someone?

Take a step back. She’s a grown woman.

Not a good idea whilst Covid is still an issue. Probably not a good idea afterwards. Especially if the sex is not good.

😂😂😂 just going to sit here and read the comments ' hand me doritoes '

Ahh my grammar is shit , glass of wine too many .. DOH

@Minecraft4life

I guess if it was amazing fireworks it would be ok. My fear is he will turn out to be penetration man or own a penis beaker or something and then she will have to swerve him whilst doing a little sick in her mouth for the next five years.

That’s just too involved for words. I’m cringing for you

Don't they have homes bedrooms etc ? 🤔

Why are you so interested ?

Look after your own sex life. If they are both single, so what ?

You’re cringing for me? 😂😂😂
Honestly, mumsnet has really surpassed itself tonight.

It could easily end badly, or they could end up hopelessly in love and live happily ever after. Why the negativity?

And as long as it isnt you thats cringing, what does it matter?

I had a ONS with an old school friend that I ran into in his local pub. Then I ended up running said pub. No cringing involved from either side, because we are adults!

The question is, is he even interested?

Does he know that his future sex life is being debated between you?

@BlueThistles

Don't they have homes bedrooms etc ? 🤔

I Imagine not literally on the doorstep.

Aye, alreet.

I shagged my neighbour. Had THE time of my life. Absolute love of my life.

@PyongyangKipperbang

It could easily end badly, or they could end up hopelessly in love and live happily ever after. Why the negativity?

And as long as it isnt you thats cringing, what does it matter?

I had a ONS with an old school friend that I ran into in his local pub. Then I ended up running said pub. No cringing involved from either side, because we are adults!

The question is, is he even interested?

Does he know that his future sex life is being debated between you?

She thinks he’s interested, I sense it too when they playground chat.

@TheCanyon

I shagged my neighbour. Had THE time of my life. Absolute love of my life.

Love this. Did you worry about the close proximity if it went tits up?

I have to agree that I am cringing a bit for you as well.

Why do you care even a little bit? A proper mate would say "Be careful, make sure you let people know where you are, make sure he uses a condom and have fun!" Or at least that what me and my friends would do.

Not sure why everyone is attacking the op Recipe for disaster in my book! the school gates are people you are stuck with for years . even a soured female friendship can be a nightmare at the school gates never mind a bloke! what is your friend thinking OP!

I thought you literally meant on the doorstep.

“Why do you care even a little bit”
Because she’s a friend, I think it’s a bit too close to home, and I was curious as to whether I’m overly risk averse. It seems I am! I’ll cheer her on tomorrow.

Op isn't being "attacked"

How dramatic.

@evrey

Not sure why everyone is attacking the op Recipe for disaster in my book! the school gates are people you are stuck with for years . even a soured female friendship can be a nightmare at the school gates never mind a bloke! what is your friend thinking OP!

Glad I haven’t lost my mind. The mumsnetters are savage this evening. This is how I see it, playground cliques are tough enough but gosh the fallout from a relationship in the playground would be grim.

@BlueThistles

Don't they have homes bedrooms etc ? 🤔

If this is for the Daily mail I am sure that they will tell us the value of the homes.

I always think this about dating someone at work, if it doesnt work out then you are sort of stuck seeing them every day. Having said that my mum married her boss.

@Jenasaurus

I always think this about dating someone at work, if it doesnt work out then you are sort of stuck seeing them every day. Having said that my mum married her boss.

Yes, urgh, if you read the ‘disaster dates’ threads on here you’d not want to be stuck three desks away for life.

I’ve had sex with numerous guys in the past. None of whom I cringe when I bump into them. One of them turned out to have a Dd in DD’s class at secondary school. (Our liaison was pre children). We managed to be perfectly polite at parents evenings, no cringing. Just an adult, hello, how are you?