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Ex didn't message the day of funeral ..aibu to be upset?

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maxxyboy · 01/01/2021 10:11

My ex and I broke up in January but remained friends.
Spoke all the time and still got on well.
He was a prick sometimes but I just looked past it.
My grandma died in December and she brought me up and was a mum to me.
Anyway he said he was sorry etc then started being a bit nasty to me.
Anyway we had a argument two days before funeral.
The day after I apologised and said I was under a lot of pressure and was upset and felt like my world was falling apart (I wasn't even in the wrong but I always apologise to him as he never does )
Anyway he read it and no reply.
The day of her funeral arrived and no message.
I text after the funeral saying "that was so hard,I really don't know what to do now"
He read it and ignored
Never spoke since
Aibu to be hurt ?

OP posts:
AgentJohnson · 03/01/2021 17:27

Treating someone as a priority who sees you only as an option, is never a good look.

He’s an Ex, he’s not a friend. It’s time to accept him for who he is and not who you desperately want him to be.

I’m sorry for your loss but you really need to move on from this idiot

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