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Cava - cavver or carver?

308 replies

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 10:54

Just been on the phone to my mother, who was waxing lyrical about the lovely ‘cavver’ (Cava) she’s bought to go with Christmas lunch. I’ve always pronounced it ‘carver’, with a soft A, and that’s what I hear more often than not, but she’s not alone in her pronunciation, so I have a nagging doubt I could be wrong. Can I get the views of the MN jury?

YABU = Cavver with a hard A
YANBU = Carver with a soft A

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StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 11:17

I have a fairly RP accent and wouldn’t sound an “r” in the middle of words, so caava and carva and carver would all sound pretty much the same in my accent.

Yes, exactly @RubaiyatOfAnyone Smile

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NoSensei · 24/12/2020 11:17

Car-va for me, same as lava (lar-va). It’s a regional accent, not just throwing in random letters that aren’t there Hmm

Same as how bath is pronounced bahth or barth (and more ways presumably!)

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 11:18

I'll call it that because that's the official linguistic terminology and how I earn my daily cava.

None for you. Only sparkling Perry.

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VodselForDinner · 24/12/2020 11:18

Why do the English add random Rs to words?

Someone claiming to be a linguist on here once told me they don’t. Idear. Cinemar. Amandar. Now Carva.

Oliv5 · 24/12/2020 11:19

Ca-va. I have no idea where the rs are coming from, I don't understand 😂

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 11:19

Car-va for me, same as lava (lar-va). It’s a regional accent, not just throwing in random letters that aren’t there

Huzzah!

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LongPauseNoAnswer · 24/12/2020 11:19

Neither is right!

Cah vah - where on earth do you stick an r????

PolloDePrimavera · 24/12/2020 11:20

Cava with a short a as in cat. But! V is pronounced like a faint b in Spanish, so In fact more caba than cava. The lips don't quite close on the b. ¡Salud! 🥂

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 11:21

Someone claiming to be a linguist on here once told me they don’t. Idear. Cinemar. Amandar. Now Carva.

But those examples are all completely different! The equivalent would be adding it at the end (‘Cavar’), which I agree would be ‘random’, but no one has suggested it.

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HollyandIvyandallthingsYule · 24/12/2020 11:21

That’s not how you would spell it phonetically, since there’s no ‘r’ sound in it.

See also Bath, et al.

Things were so much simpler when people actually used/understood pronunciation guides - I’ve totally forgotten how!

Anyway, the best thing to do is just to drink it and not worry about saying it! Xmas Wink

Mamagotskills · 24/12/2020 11:22

Scottish - no R sound in cava, or lava, or bath for that matter

Snowy0w1 · 24/12/2020 11:22

This is infuriating when posters with a south of england accent do this. They don't pronounce an R, so they insert an R (that they don't pronounce) as some sort of GUIDE for the rest of us! We have to work around their regional accent to figure out what is meant.

I can't believe people would sit around figuring out how to pronounce Cava. Is it not obvious? Spanish is so phonetic. It's spelt Cava. It's pronounced Cava.

CatchingWind · 24/12/2020 11:23

@Snowy0w1

This is infuriating when posters with a south of england accent do this. They don't pronounce an R, so they insert an R (that they don't pronounce) as some sort of GUIDE for the rest of us! We have to work around their regional accent to figure out what is meant.

I can't believe people would sit around figuring out how to pronounce Cava. Is it not obvious? Spanish is so phonetic. It's spelt Cava. It's pronounced Cava.

With two short a sounds?
SionnachRua · 24/12/2020 11:25

The assumption that the Rs here aren't pronounced is so specific to the poster's own accent. To me Carver is a chair or the person who is carving the meat!

It's nearly impossible to explain over text I think because when I write Cah-vah I know people are reading it car-vah (or whatever their pronunciation is). That's why I threw in the bit about carver and cava being totally different to me - hopefully it underlines it?

I actually broke up with an English bf over this - idear, barth, tunar, lawr - drove me mad and I hated the idea of potential kids picking it up. Blush Tbf it wasn't our only issue!

Theimpossiblegirl · 24/12/2020 11:26

Cah-vuh
No rrr but a longer soft ahh and an uh

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 24/12/2020 11:26

Yes, two short A's

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 11:26

I can't believe people would sit around figuring out how to pronounce Cava. Is it not obvious? Spanish is so phonetic. It's spelt Cava. It's pronounced Cava.

Well you’ve ‘sat around’ long enough to read the thread and tell us why we’re thick, so perhaps you’ve got more time on your hands than you thought.

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GintyMcGinty · 24/12/2020 11:26

Neither

Caa-vaa

HollyandIvyandallthingsYule · 24/12/2020 11:27

If an ‘r’ was pronounced in that word it would be incorrect.

More cava anyone?

RudolphToldRedNoseNotSymptom · 24/12/2020 11:28

Oh just leave them at it.

Cavagirl · 24/12/2020 11:28

Well I feel like this is a thread I should get involved in....

Cava to rhyme with lava

Unless you're actually Spanish, in which case both a sounds are very short and rhyme with the a in apple.

Maybe your DM is trying to get into the Spanish spirit OP? Offer her some hallapenyoh flavoured crisps to go with her natively pronounced cava tomorrow and see how she reacts...

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 11:28

Cah-vuh

Yes, that’s a good way of explaining it Smile

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Chemenger · 24/12/2020 11:28

Inserting a silent “r” is surely the polar opposite of phonetics. Maybe the OP is a secret Gaelic or welsh speaker where there are always silent letters to foil the unwary.

NoSensei · 24/12/2020 11:28

Who knew just talking in your own accent was so offensive 😂

SoupDragon · 24/12/2020 11:29

Carver.

Or Cahver for those with rhotic accents