What is an instant turn off to you?

[shitinmyhandsandclap]

Following on from the instant turn on thread, what're your turn offs? Mine are:

Smokers
Dirty nails
Bad teeth
Black, shiny, pointy shoes with jeans (or slip ons)

I am a man btw.

Smoking
Excessive make up
Leggings

@ths1

Strangely other posters' turn offs of sports loving, arrogant, slightly posh men are definitely my weakness...

Yes! Basically Rupert Cambell-Black

mansplaining
hair removal - I like both hairy and less hairy bodies, but hair removal is a no-no
RP accents
Banter
shoes without socks - this one killed a huge (innocent) crush for me stone-dead over the summer.

I forgot another couple of essential put-offers:

• Men who have slept around a lot
• Men who have been none too discriminate with whom they have slept with/dated

Dirty nails

Arrogant, loud and rude.
Make up and over preening.
Blokes that have hissy fits, tantrums.
Men who rate women etc.
Stingy
No sense of humour
Uptight, too serious.
Controlling
Little
Thin

• Stinginess
• constant complaining about everything

Men who are shorter than me
Earrings
Tattoos
Any kind of silly hairstyle like manbuns etc

Baldness
Unkempt beards (neat and tidy is fine)
Speaks like a ned
Can't write in proper sentences

Arrogance
Selfishness
Tantrums
Huge ego
Misogynistic
Immature
Too groomed - like a Ken doll.
Bad teeth.
Skinny jeans with loafers - just why???

Cockiness and lack of body hair! I don’t like the smooth chest thing.

Also jogging bottoms unless for lounge wear or exercise!

Tory
Man child
Talks about money
Entitled

Waves to Zoinks and compares tatts, piercings and vegetarian ways

My ‘nos’ are:
Any sort of bigoted view
Mansplaining
Poor personal hygiene

I’m less bothered about dress sense, though, as long as what’s being worn is clean. BUT slogan tees (especially the ‘funny’ ones) are a big turn-off.

So, so, so many things I find a turn off 😬...

Chavs
"Street" speak
Posh boys
Mummies boys
Show offs, flashiness
Body builders
Fussy eaters
Emotionally unintelligent
Neediness/clinginess
Uneducated and/or not interested in lifelong learning
Overweight
Skinny
Long hair
Long nails
Hipsters
Woke
No body hair
Overly groomed
Smokers
Heavy drinkers and non-drinkers
Drug takers
Gamers
Cyclists/MAMILs
Keen golfers
Non drivers
Workaholics with a poor work/life balance (who expect relationships to work around them)
Bad timekeepers
Arrogance
Multiple children by multiple women
If they don't like animals
If they consider some animals "vermin". Pest controllers

Right wing political views
Non-animal lovers
to go against the grain, Non-gamers.

Tattoos
Smoking
Certain accents
Lack of intelligence
Wearing flashy clothes
Wearing any jewellery other than a watch
Being under 5' 11, ie shorter than me

That's just first impressions.

Wow! Some harsh comments.

I’d love to see what men find a turn off

•love rats/slept around
•vegans
•gym obsessed/forever drinking protein shakes
•skinny jeans/wearers of the stupid cross body sports bags/low hanging joggers
•posh speaking (like made in Chelsea - vom)
•grungey/emo/goth
•no job
•homophobic
•skinny or shorter than me

Grey jogging bottoms
When you cant grow a beard but insist on keeping that pathetuc growth
Smoking
White trainers
Chavvy
Several parents of your children
Gamer
Pony tail or man bun
Goatee

@Closetbeanmuncher a gold star lesbian is a women whose never slept or been in a relationship with a man but uses it as a basis to discriminate/hate on bisexuals or other women who may have come out later in life. They generally seem to have a superiority complex. Its a whole thing within the community (in my area at least)

@Craftycorvid

Waving back ! Gotta represent aha

For me it's more physical mannerisms, eg I remember a school dad at a party... The way he stood with legs apart, slightly rocking and arms folded, looked so incredibly Cocky..

I see, thanks for enlightening me zoinks

These are reasons for instant dismissal, not turn-offs:
Never travelled, still lives in home town
Excessive love of televised sports or a 'team'.
Has a special room or set up for gaming that suggests a lot of time is spent on it
History of porn use or prostitute use
Claggy hair e.g. dreadlocks or hair with sticky product in it.
Poor pronunciation, e.g. somefink
Girly writing
A hairdresser's car e.g a Yaris
Bad breath

• Swearing and vulgar language
• Back biting tendencies
• Smoking
• Long hair
• Body odour/bad breath
• Bad treatment of others
• Menace on the road/excessive use of the horn
• People who do things to show others e.g expensive presents