What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

Funny. Dark stubble or full beard. Nice teeth. Manly hands. I also really like a bloke in tracksuit bottoms, when my oh is chilling in the house in tracksuit bottoms and a plain fitted tee

@Bunchup

Humility. I like my men to be fucking grateful

🤣

Dark blue eyes and dark hair. Oh the mistakes I have made for blue eyes!

Completely shaved head.

Broad shoulders to start with, then a twinkle in his eyes, enthusiasm and intelligence.

@Ratonastick oh yes.

Someone who sees what I don't see in myself.
Someone, who would do anything for me, even if they are struggling themselves. If that makes sense......

When I first met DH, I remember looking repeatedly at his lovely hands and wrists. Everything about them is extremely attractive.

@Bunchup that really made me laugh!

My ex had all these qualities. Muscular forearms, tall, strong, athletic with a deep voice and long curly hair. Unfortunately, he was such an insecure, narcissistic nightmare of a man that all those attributes have become a massive turn off for me now. Give me an overweight, balding, beta male that is kind and honest and I'll marry him tomorrow.

What is it about men and driving? I love it when my husband drives my car.

We have our own land and he’s always chopping up wood and making fires but usually makes me do ours at home.😩

Due to all the chopping, he does have lovely arms and I’m always watching him work!

Soft Australian accent with a baritone voice, I think it's a lingering association with one Aussie guy I fell for so, so hard many years ago, he was gorgeous!

I didn't realise I wasn't alone with the arm thing! That and a deep voice, preferably with a hint of laughter in it.... ♡♡♡

@NoShitHemlock

Shirts rolled up to just below the elbow, a decent, chunky watch and putting his hand on the back of your carseat as he reverses. Phwoar.

Having said that I have been single and celibate for quite a while so even sandals with socks would do at the moment.

Oh good God yes

@Oooohbehave I second the not Bristolian accent- I usually date men from there or North Somerset, they could turn up like James Bond but opening their mouths they end up sounding like the Wurzels or Hagrid!

Henry cavill

Super tall - over 6’3 (my husband is 6’6 and I’ve never dated anyone shorter than 6’3)
I’ve got no idea why - I’m only short myself but I just find it so attractive!

Playing a bass and smoking a fag at the same time. I don’t even like smokers, but this imprinted on me when I was 18 with a cool musician BF

If someone makes me laugh he’s halfway in my knickers!

The little nod Dh gives me when we're dancing together. Oooof

Just been to hospital and got checked over by a dr who was:

Tall
Had dark colouring
Had an Irish accent
Wearing scrubs
Clever and capable
Caring

Swoon, swoon swoon

(He was also probably about 10yrs too young to be interested in me but let's leave that aside)

I had a very attractive dentist years ago. Very tricky to flirt in that situation

Confidence. The type that makes you sit up straight when he walks into a room.

Lovely smile and a nice voice.

A slightly too big nose

Strong wrists and forearms

A south african accent

A cold stare

I realise that I need help