What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

Adventurous. Competent. Not afraid. Twinkly mischievous look.

Twinkly eyes and full on eye contact.

Capability. Doing or teaching me something I'm not great at

Broad shoulders, being switched on, making me laugh but friendly wit, not cutting 'banter' or Frankie Boyle type humour. Anyone can do that.

Eyes

Good wrists and big hands. There's something about a guy who looks like he could just scoop you up...

A cheeky smile and personality works too.

A slightly too big nose

Ooh and when they have the big Adam's apple too? Swoon.

Agree wholeheartedly with the big nose!

Once I was walking along the road and a man in a very smart suit pulled up alongside me on a motorbike, lifted his visor - and it was DH! I never normally see him on his bike but he looked pretty darn good. So I am adding sharply dressed men on motorbikes to the list. Luckily Italy is full of them.

Changing gear when driving
Instant turn off - driving everywhere in first gear?

A dr or nurse in scrubs, who is fit, tall and kind. Nice arms, clean shaven, nice teeth, no tattoos, flat stomach muscly arms and clean hands.
All you women who swoon over your husbands, I’m jealous.
Call me superficial but mine has put on loads of weight and the desire is fading. I find myself fantasising about the man mentioned above.

Beards, long hair and hairy chests. A good sense of humour too.

I don't even know what it is or how to describe it, but it's like a certain twinkle in the eye. Someone who is playful but kind, funny, can take and make a joke. DH isn't classically handsome but he has a funny little cheeky crooked smile he does that makes him the most attractive man I've ever seen.

In celebrities and people I only get to see on screen etc it's got to be forearms and shoulders. In particular a just right T-Shirt with a cigarette packet rolled up in the sleeve. Or Billy Bones from Black Sails.

Intelligence. Humour. Similar political outlook.

@CatholicKidston

Curly hair. I don't know why

Same!

@NoShitHemlock

Shirts rolled up to just below the elbow, a decent, chunky watch and putting his hand on the back of your carseat as he reverses. Phwoar.

Having said that I have been single and celibate for quite a while so even sandals with socks would do at the moment.

Don’t most drivers use reversing aids these days?!

Clever men.

Long hair

Leather trousers

No to muscular parsnip-shoes men in horrendously skinny jeans and sculpted hair.

No to shorts and fake tans in the flaming winter.

No to horrible hipster beards and style.

...parsnip-shaped men...

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Doctors are a bit attractive to me - always. (Medical ones only!)

A really deep London accent

Nice smelling aftershave, but subtle.
Bright intelligent eyes.
Easy smile.
Broad shoulders and thick thighs.
Hairy chest and forearms.

I absolutely hate skinny or hairless guys, blech

A decent suit and confidence. Tick boxes.

@golddustwomen

Funny. Dark stubble or full beard. Nice teeth. Manly hands. I also really like a bloke in tracksuit bottoms, when my oh is chilling in the house in tracksuit bottoms and a plain fitted tee

Grey ones?

Deep voice.

No to tracksuits. Slobby.

A deep, resonant voice.