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What is an instant turn on to you?

606 replies

Heavenly44 · 22/12/2020 01:18

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

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Janegrey333 · 28/12/2020 14:23

Fine. Confusingly written post, however.

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Janegrey333 · 28/12/2020 14:24

I have never noticed this regular poster.

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Spongebobsquarefringe · 28/12/2020 14:46

David Tennant getting a lot of love on here, I saw him just before lockdown and almost collapsed didn’t know what to do with myself, I just sat quietly whilst squeaking inside.

I do like the whole tall dark and slightly geeky, I like someone worn slightly odd features, interesting face. Love an accent, Scottish is just knock me down dead.

Greg Davis makes me die laughing and for that reason I find myself attracted to him, he’s nothing like I would pick but he makes me laugh.

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ProudAuntie76 · 28/12/2020 14:49

@Janegrey333

I have never noticed this regular poster.

I see SimonJT on here all the time, enough to know he is male, gay (and Simon, am I right in thinking you are also Asian and have a son that you’ve welcomed through adoption?). He’s a respected poster as far as I’m aware and I didn’t find his posts confusing at all. He has a male username, he referred to a male partner...where is the confusion?
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Spongebobsquarefringe · 28/12/2020 15:08

I have seen @SimonJT on here lots too

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LadyfromtheBelleEpoque · 28/12/2020 15:38

Yes, another who recognises @SimonJT as a regular poster (we are all obv on here too much🤣).

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Sn0tnose · 28/12/2020 16:30

@SimonJT and on top of everything else, we can now safely assume that you don’t have a passion for air fix Grin

Someone who makes me laugh. I like chunky, well built men, alternative, beards, tattoos, motorbikes, someone capable at something. Doesn’t matter if it’s mechanics, fixing things around the house or cooking. Just something. I like certain accents. Oh, and maintaining eye contact while giving me a slow smile.

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CrotchBurn · 28/12/2020 22:12

@Spongebobsquarefringe

David Tennant is the antithesis of sex to me, I think he has a cold mean face and he annoys me. But geekiness has always left me cold. I like good old fashioned chest thumping looks I'm appalled to say

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formerbabe · 28/12/2020 22:13

[quote CrotchBurn]@Spongebobsquarefringe

David Tennant is the antithesis of sex to me, I think he has a cold mean face and he annoys me. But geekiness has always left me cold. I like good old fashioned chest thumping looks I'm appalled to say[/quote]
Agree entirely!

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SimonJT · 28/12/2020 22:14

[quote Sn0tnose]@SimonJT and on top of everything else, we can now safely assume that you don’t have a passion for air fix Grin

Someone who makes me laugh. I like chunky, well built men, alternative, beards, tattoos, motorbikes, someone capable at something. Doesn’t matter if it’s mechanics, fixing things around the house or cooking. Just something. I like certain accents. Oh, and maintaining eye contact while giving me a slow smile.[/quote]
“Eyes up airfix supplies”

The shit comment was his, not mine. He really enjoys when I purposely bore him to death with airfix, or if I display them in a place he can’t reach.

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Holothane · 28/12/2020 22:14

Very nice dream about David Tennant as the 10th Doctor, quite shocked I’ve always wanted 12 in is in tardis.

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Mrsfrumble · 28/12/2020 22:33

DH cooked Christmas lunch. I kept wandering into the kitchen to ask if I could help and he kept refilling my sherry glass and sending me back into the other room. It was cooked to perfection and delicious, and yes I did climb him like a tree that evening as soon as the children were in bed.

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SpagBowl99 · 28/12/2020 22:38

A manly jaw, kindness, blue eyes, tall.

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Menopausalcraziness · 28/12/2020 22:43

A man in a kilt - my other half 😍
Strong thighs - Gary Lineker style! And my other half.
Clean shoes - unsure why but I always look at a man’s shoes!!

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SpagBowl99 · 28/12/2020 22:43

Hmm, maybe just a mutual spark?!

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SpagBowl99 · 28/12/2020 22:45

Ahhh, I got it! When I feel their manliness whilst having a hug...!

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AliceAbsolum · 29/12/2020 01:31

Power. Just as long as he never uses it in an abusive way.

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NiceGerbil · 29/12/2020 02:34

Not RTFT

being seen as a person first

I can count on the fingers of one hand how many men/ people have done that.

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TheChampagneGalop · 29/12/2020 09:20

@Menopausalcraziness

A man in a kilt - my other half 😍
Strong thighs - Gary Lineker style! And my other half.
Clean shoes - unsure why but I always look at a man’s shoes!!

I'm so jealous. Envy Moving to Scotland when the pandemic is over.
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waterlego · 29/12/2020 09:31

I’m another one who appreciates the strong forearm and hands.

Also love body hair. A peek of luxuriant chest hair just above the neckline is an instant turn on.

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Menopausalcraziness · 29/12/2020 18:35

@TheChampagneGalop
Thankfully he moved from Scotland when he was younger but brought all the attire with him! I don’t think I could live in Scotland - reports of too much rain! Grin

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lunalulu · 29/12/2020 19:49

Ok.

Scent. The right scent.

Yes ok the forearms.

I like anticipation of my needs.

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JoeNotExotic · 29/12/2020 19:55

Hairy forearms and chest hair. The more like a gorilla the better 😂

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Mummydaydreams · 29/12/2020 20:08

Dry intelligent sense of humour, smouldering eye contact, firm hand shake.

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Janegrey333 · 31/12/2020 16:20

Direct stare. Cleverness.

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