What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

[SimonJT]

When their top lifts up and you get a sneaky peak of their adonis belt.

Big/plump lips

Large eyes (preferably blue)

[Username642243]

It's always the forearms. Men who transition always focus on boobs and face feminisation when really they should be working on forearms.

[DipSwimSwoosh]

Cyclists calves. Especially while they are cycling uphill.

[Zenithbear]

Quiet confidence, not needing to crow about everything.
Wicked sense of humour.
Physically- nice toned upper arms and a naughty, twinkly smile.

[EssentialHummus]

A good beard, a Belfast accent.

Having said that the time I found my (Russian) DH sexiest was when he was sitting around our kitchen table with two of his mates, trying to turn a potato into a battery.

[Djouce]

@LubaLuca

Moustache, no beard. It seems so manly but careful.

Hitler, Tom Selleck, the Village People?

[SimplySusanna]

Competency....could be in sports, woodwork, research, painting...Show me a man with super skills, and I'm hooked

This. Even watching dh do mundane tasks like changing the brakes on the car, rewiring the toaster, making some shelves...he just knows how to do all kinds of random stuff well and I find it incredibly attractive!!

[Peanutbutterblood]

I dont know what they're called but a mans "V" muscles on his hips. Make me swoon

Nice muscular arms, not huge like they've been in a gym, manual work muscular

[Lobsterquadrille2]

Perfect spelling, grammar and punctuation and an opening message that's more than two words, and shows he's read your profile. 😀

[QueenPaws]

Definitely forearms with rolled up shirt sleeves
Nice aftershave. If they smell good, I'm gone
Seeing them washing up or cooking

[KiKiDeluxe]

Presence
So difficult to say what that is, but if you've got it, you've got it!

[TAKESNOSHITSHIRLEY]

pretty faces with no facial hair

[potter5]

All of the above except for ping pong!

[MotorwayDiva]

Forearms for me too, I thought I was the only one!!

[ohgetoveryourself]

Blue/green eyes with black hair/eyelashes

[pilates]

A good sense of humour

[HmmSureJan]

Intelligent humour.

[CrotchBurn]

Big nice shaped hands - my DP has the best hands!

When they fix shit

When they have an angry face but are fighting to keep their anger in control (???! Anyone know what I mean?)

Dirty clothes from working

I like thin lips on stumble man

stubble- they all look better with stubble

When men who dont usually dress up wear a shirt and proper trousers

When they have just finished working out and they are kind of panty

When they pick up an animal or child and coo over it

[CrotchBurn]

I have no fucking idea what "stumble man" is 😂😂😂 I meant all men - my brain must have been jumping ahead to stubble!

[isthismylifenow]

I agree with quietly confident. Overly brash and loud is a turn off for me.

Eyes. The colour doesn't really matter but I have a preference for green.

A nice smile and good teeth are up there too.

But the thing that attracts me the most, is that he is gentle.

A single gentle man with nice eyes, good teeth and quietly confident seems very challenging to find though.

[Italiangranny]

Forearms in rolled up sleeves
Putting on a tie. Loosening a tie.
Long lean thighs. Long legs...
Collapsing in giggles and laughter, especially if at themselves. GSOH!
Wink and an appreciative glance, complicit smile, especially one eyebrow raised.
Quiet, unconscious, competence
Biceps and long elegant hands

[emmetgirl]

Big hands.

[SimonJT]

@Peanutbutterblood

I dont know what they're called but a mans "V" muscles on his hips. Make me swoon

Nice muscular arms, not huge like they've been in a gym, manual work muscular

An Adonis belt 🤤

[goldielockdown2]

Big dick 🤷‍♀️

[WouldBeGood]

@goldielockdown2 me too 😂