What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

Big strong hands and a sense of rhythm. Don't have to be a professional dancer but at least be able to keep up with me when we go clubbing

Ambition.

A razor sharp mind that grasps things in seconds.

@snappyoldfart

I wonder. I reckon a lot think they have them all.

I hoovered once - tick
I went to the gym twice last year - tick
I know all the titles of albums - tick (intelligent)

@caringcarer

I was at a dinner last year with a man like that. I was completely mesmerised by these brown eyes behind nerdy glasses (he is a scholar).

Also, another guy I met at a conference who I just naturally gravitated to because he was so calm and centred - that’s also very attractive.

I posted way back inn this thread and said black hair blue eyes and Irish accent, I would now like to add
A few tattoos
Pierced ear , only a small stud or sleeper not them huge holes
A bum that fills his blue jeans that fit well, none of this crotch around the knees malarkey.
A White tshirt and black leather jacket a big plus too.

@snappyoldfart

Does anyone else think there are a load of men reading this and frantically updating their online dating profiles.

"I love housework, hoovering and cleaning the bathroom, I'm amazing with any children and can roll up my sleeves and fix all the things confidently, while smelling woody and maybe or maybe not wearing a uniform"

I'm really curious what the cross over would be with a "what characteristics makeq good father" thread

..........wonders what men would write about women.....

I seem to have a thing for chefs
Rolled up sleeves
6ft +
Unbitten fingernails

I’ve totally forgotten
That’s so bad
I do like a Glasgow accent

@Unfairestofthemall

Big strong hands and a sense of rhythm. Don't have to be a professional dancer but at least be able to keep up with me when we go clubbing

This is a must. Fortunately for DH, he has a really good sense of rhythm and looks good on the dancefloor. Used to hate being asked to dance by blokes who had zero rhythm. It used to instantly make my vagina clang shut.

Oh short hair which I can run my hands through

Scottish and Irish accents are getting some love here but I would also like to add: A nice breathy Welsh accent.

I’d like to add ‘good with kids’.

One of the reasons I fell so hard for DH is because he was so involved with his nieces and clearly adored them.

The reason why there’s such a small age gap between DS1 and DS2 was because DH was carrying DS1 around whilst he had no shirt on and was wearing very skinny black jeans. My ovaries practically exploded 😂

Chest hair.

@TheChampagneGalop

Scottish and Irish accents are getting some love here but I would also like to add: A nice breathy Welsh accent.

Oh agreed.

Not sure why but I would find it really hard to find a Welsh accent sexy!

Twinkly eyes that give the impression there's some mischief behind them. They turn an ordinary-looking man into a "ooh, hello there!" one.

Shirt sleeves rolled up to show strong, hairy, forearms.

Strong shoulders
😛

@MenaiMna

Doing housework capably and unprompted.

Yesssssssssssssss!

@NameChange84

The way Giovanni looks at Ranvir.

My ex used to look at the menu like that on Steak night in our local pub. Once he got a 10lb steak vom. He looked at it like it was so emotional and beautiful that he might cry. He gazed at me with that same adoring, teary eyed look and gently said “are you going to eat all your chips, or can I finish them?”.

A 10lb steak?

I would be turned on by anyone who took me to a restaurant with that on the menu.

Skinny but toned body type n blue eyes

I can’t remember 😫. Been divorced and single for three years now (after years of my marriage being affection free and more or less sexless) and seem to inhabit a separate sexless universe 🙄.

Deep voice
Square wide shoulders (sloping shoulders are a turn off)
Moody looking
A smart suit that fits well
I like rolled up shirt sleeves

I like alpa men and when I feel small next to them (not difficult as I am only 5’2) I wonder if I am truly a feminist

I definitely appreciate a nice arm, also a nice chunky thigh, I like men chunky generally.

I like a man who scrubs up well in a suit when the occasion arises, rather than a man who is always dressed up and groomed, these young men who are heavily into fashion and grooming wouldn't do anything for me, or me them.

A 10lb steak?

I would be turned on by anyone who took me to a restaurant with that on the menu.

Think of the meat sweats! And the constipation!

It was one of those American Challenge thingys. And it was all about his enjoyment.

I had the chicken . #lightweight