What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

I find it very attractive when someone excels at something, especially sport

Also like men who are practical, can fix things etc

@merryhouse

And he also ticks the box of having a lovely accent ...🤤

Smaller boobs than me

Looks
Good hygiene
Good morals
Got to make me laugh

(Shallow) but he's got to drive!
I drive
But I think it's a turn off if a man doesn't drive

Personality- gently funny, kind, generous.
Looks- good arms, smiley eyes.
Height, weight, hair, less important. I do appreciate it when my DH does practical stuff too - there is something deeply appealing about people who can fix stuff!

At this point a vague nod of the head.
It's been a while

Intelligence. DH is seriously, and I mean seriously clever. He is exceptionally good at maths. I had to give up trying to help our DCs with their maths homework while they were still at primary school. Also, he has really nice handwriting and everything he writes is always perfectly punctuated and spelt.

On a slightly less cerebral note, I love that he has massive shoulders, hairy chest and big, warm hands.

Those workmen's trousers with a tool belt. Especially if they happen to be reaching up to do something and reveal a bit of hairy stomach 😬

Decent arse, reasonably muscled legs, and a noticeable 'meat and two veg'

Nicely toned body in a three button suit, neat hair and nails. Preferably riding a Lambretta and I'm weak at the knees

Broad shoulders, shirt sleeves rolled up with a glimpse of a lightly tanned bicep, baked in creases around the eyes from the Dartmoor sun, wind and rain, the accent, the smell of straw and not recoiling when I approach smelling lightly of manure and saying 'Look what I've found!' as I cup some sort of lifeform in my hands to show him.

@MenaiMna 100% a man doing housework, well, when it needs done, before it needs done and without me having to lose my shit

Strong arms, good shoulders, beards, and my husbands sexy scottish accent 😍

@mineofuselessinformation

Decent arse, reasonably muscled legs, and a noticeable 'meat and two veg'

I'm not too bothered about penis size in general but I do like big low hanging balls

Oooo hands. I can't explain what, but l know when l see them. I agree forearms too but l never thought of that before. I like a good smelling man too. And dark eyes.

There is nothing sexier than a man that does tasks around the house without being asked though. Brings you a coffee in bed without being asked. Ooo yeah

As a Scottish woman I am loving all the love for Scottish accents here I've dated men from several different places that are seen as exotic but I still love Scottish best! Especially the 'Teuchter' accent. Think Sam Heugan in Outlander (sort of)

I like a man who is tall, dark haired, kind and gentle, nice hands and arms. I have someone in mind

Tall, flat stomach, nice bum and good biceps rounded off with a great sense of humour.

@peaceanddove. Oh yes. Seriously intelligent is just

Nice aftershave (probably my biggest turn on)
Solid build with strong, probably wide, shoulders
A few tattoos (not loads)
A chain necklace

Also, a husky voice, maybe even a smoker's voice.

Someone who wears a mask correctly!

@sergeilavrov can't stop laughing 😂

Does anyone else think there are a load of men reading this and frantically updating their online dating profiles.

"I love housework, hoovering and cleaning the bathroom, I'm amazing with any children and can roll up my sleeves and fix all the things confidently, while smelling woody and maybe or maybe not wearing a uniform"