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What is an instant turn on to you?

606 replies

Heavenly44 · 22/12/2020 01:18

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

OP posts:
Ingvermama · 22/12/2020 17:55

Right now a woman in dr martens and dungarees, but otherwise I'll settle for a fireman 😍

bellmyring · 22/12/2020 17:55

When I was younger ... it was male guitar players in an indie rock band. And I was always attracted to kind, attractive younger doctors. In fact so much so, that having had it as a fantasy, I always avoided appointments with them lest I accidentally show any unwanted physical signs of attraction during an exam :)

Holothane · 22/12/2020 17:56

Dark hair man in a suit, Peter Capaldi yum.

Coldwinterahead1 · 22/12/2020 17:58

Aragon

ainsisoisje · 22/12/2020 18:09

DIY aptitude and being a good driver is a turn on. Briefly dated a guy who could reverse park his van into a tiny space, he couldn’t understand why I was so impressed Grin

MeOldBamboo · 22/12/2020 18:26

Sharp wit + intellect + action + nice eyes

TheChristmasPrincess · 22/12/2020 18:32

Nice eyes
Slightly muscular forearms
Good sense of style (smart casual)
Sense of humour
Intellect

I’m also a sucker for young gentlemen in wool coats and wellies 😄

GuiEtVin · 22/12/2020 18:35

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TheChampagneGalop · 22/12/2020 18:38

Long hair
Kilts
Tight trousers

OptedForSome · 22/12/2020 18:45

Physically - not a lot.

I like them interesting, emotionally intelligent, curious (wanting to learn more) and a feminist.

Big cock helps.

wizzbangfizz · 22/12/2020 18:52

Drumming - I've seen some very sexy drummers in my time.

cookiemon666 · 22/12/2020 19:01

If they smell nice always makes me want to give them a cuddle

pooopypants · 22/12/2020 19:08

Tattoo sleeves. Shemar Moore. Jason Momoa.

OhMyMirror · 22/12/2020 19:11

Decent, well kept shoes.
Beards and tattoos.
Musical and/or artistic...if they're good with their hands I'm putty.

jannika · 22/12/2020 19:14

Long blonde hair
A great smile with good teeth
An American or Irish accent

BettyCrockaShit · 22/12/2020 19:39

High-brow answer: someone who reads.

Actual answer: someone who knows the importance of trimming their nose hair, should the situation arise.

Valeatqueave · 22/12/2020 19:46

A nice voice. In terms of accent, if at all possible, Irish (as long as he doesn't sound like the late Dr Ian Paisley) or next best, Scottish (as long as he doesn't sound like Rab C Nesbitt - or look like him Grin), but BBC English will do fine. Soft Geordie is good too, or occasionally Yorkshire (Clive, the dad in the Yorkshire Farm series is rather attractive Blush). Even a touch of Scouse.

Really, really don't like London regional accents or Birmingham.

Sorry, Aussie, American or South African don't do it for me!

Valeatqueave · 22/12/2020 19:48

someone who knows the importance of trimming their nose hair, should the situation arise

😂

Userengage · 22/12/2020 19:53

Fit (not flat) arse
Thick thighs
Full, kissable lips
Big hard cock

A man who’s a doer. BF cooks, cleans, bakes, gardens, fixes and when he drives...

SnackySnack · 22/12/2020 19:54

Height 🤤🤤🤤

SnackySnack · 22/12/2020 19:56

Big cock helps.

Brilliant
😂😂

Yes, I most certainly agree.

TheChampagneGalop · 22/12/2020 20:04

And a sexy deep voice. Any accent.

randomer · 22/12/2020 20:07

What is all boxes ticked but cock is weedy?

merryhouse · 22/12/2020 20:13

lanky skinny geeky types with a Scottish pointy face

(basically I'm a sucker for David Tennant Grin)

...but apart from that, the main thing is The Ability To Do Something - irrelevant what it is, really: if I'm spending time with a group of people it's inevitable that I start to fancy the one who's best at the activity (even if I start by considering him definitely Not My Type).

AllTheUserNamesAreTaken · 22/12/2020 20:14

Good biceps. Not massive, just a good size, strong and good shape.