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What is an instant turn on to you?

606 replies

Heavenly44 · 22/12/2020 01:18

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

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Pebbledashery · 22/12/2020 17:07

@NoShitHemlock lol'ing at your comment 🤣🤣
Mine is a beautiful and fresh smelling aftershave. You could look like Barry from Eastenders but if you smell beautiful then you got my attention 😊

Harkhowthebells · 22/12/2020 17:09

Doing housework, doing DIY, watching my programmes with me.

2old2worry · 22/12/2020 17:09

Veiny arms, come-to-bed eyes, good driver, when he holds your face when he kisses you, dresses well, holds my hand in public

Janegrey333 · 22/12/2020 17:10

Alex

What is an instant turn on to you?
EddieVeddersfoxymop · 22/12/2020 17:11

Oooh good thread! Fair men, as in pale skinned, blonde ish hair, blue eyes. Strong muscly forearms with a nice watch. Love watching DH drive ha ha!!

2old2worry · 22/12/2020 17:11

Reading all these comments, I’m officially horned up! It’s been a while... Hmm

NameChange84 · 22/12/2020 17:13

The way Giovanni looks at Ranvir.

My ex used to look at the menu like that on Steak night in our local pub. Once he got a 10lb steak Envy vom. He looked at it like it was so emotional and beautiful that he might cry. He gazed at me with that same adoring, teary eyed look and gently said “are you going to eat all your chips, or can I finish them?”.

Twigletgirl27 · 22/12/2020 17:16

Definitely arms for me too, strong upper arms and yep, those forearms too! And a broad chest with hair. Skinny men are a massive turn off for me.

amethystprimrose · 22/12/2020 17:17

Bald and bearded men 🤤

CrotchBurn · 22/12/2020 17:19

I really want to get laid now 👀

Twigletgirl27 · 22/12/2020 17:20

@EmmanuelleMakro oh god yes, I love Richard Armitage! Caught an old Vicar of Dibley recently and swooned all over again!

CrotchBurn · 22/12/2020 17:20

My ideal man: Ragnar. There's something about when a man has a wild glint in his eye. Something slightly uncontrolled.

LolaSmiles · 22/12/2020 17:23

Richard Armitage is lovely. Smile

Ace1185 · 22/12/2020 17:23

Beards

OnePotato2Potato · 22/12/2020 17:23

I never saw the appeal of Tom Hiddleson when he was being suggested for Bond plus he had that weird thing with Taylor Swift.
But, have just finished watching him in The Night Manager (late to the party) and he was pretty attractive. Smart, well fitting suit, tall, great manners... yes pls
I will also join the strong forearms club!

SleepingStandingUp · 22/12/2020 17:24

@CrotchBurn

My ideal man: Ragnar. There's something about when a man has a wild glint in his eye. Something slightly uncontrolled.
Lothbrok?? That's more than a frigging wild glint lol
shas19 · 22/12/2020 17:27

Coming in dirty from work, putting their arm on the head rest when reversing, strong jaw line

Noshowlomo · 22/12/2020 17:27

@CrotchBurn oh my god YES YES YES YES Ragnar. And his Viking brother at the same time. Ffuuuuuuccck

CoronaIsWatching · 22/12/2020 17:29

Thick hairy legs . Six pack doesn't do anything for me.

RUOKHon · 22/12/2020 17:30

If a man can make me properly, genuinely belly laugh, and is kind and tall, then I would probably shag him.

AJB3001 · 22/12/2020 17:32

Broad shoulders and a deep voice 🤣

Leodot · 22/12/2020 17:40

@Noshowlomo Rollo lothbrok. Good god he makes me... 😏😏😏 Also Chris Hemsworth!

SleepingStandingUp · 22/12/2020 17:47

[quote Leodot]@Noshowlomo Rollo lothbrok. Good god he makes me... 😏😏😏 Also Chris Hemsworth![/quote]
Wow wow. You can't have both. That's too much man for you. We can share.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 22/12/2020 17:47

Manual labour jobs. I like a man in work gear that looks a bit dirty like they've been heaving lifting all day. Although, the person in them has to be attractive. When I first met dp he was at college and did a part time job where he just wore normal clothes, it was such a let down. Now he does 2 different manual labour jobs, I love it! Especially when he wears big heavy boots.

dontgetmewrong · 22/12/2020 17:53

When he takes it upon himself to do DIY around the house without me having to nag him first!