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What is an instant turn on to you?

606 replies

Heavenly44 · 22/12/2020 01:18

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

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TheShapeJaper · 22/12/2020 15:54

Good chat and makes a fuss of the cat/dog. Knows how to switch a hoover on and isn’t afraid to empty the dishwasher. Have yet to meet this person but it’s not too much to ask for is it?

DonnaQuixotedelaManchester · 22/12/2020 15:54

@Pascha 🤣🤣🤣

MonkeyPuddle · 22/12/2020 15:57

DP’s thighs in shorts. Yes please!

Thankssomuch · 22/12/2020 15:58

We live in the country and it’s shooting season, so when DH comes home in his breeks,, shooting socks and tweeds, quite muddy - phwoar!! Once he was carrying a bottle of champagne. That was good 👍

moolady1977 · 22/12/2020 16:01

Until meeting my oh I'd have said long hair tattoos and piercings and the presence of a very loud Harley Davidson but then I met my oh and it's now a broad pair of shoulders a big pair of hands that aren't workshy and his ability to make me laugh even when I feel down in the dumps oh and the niceness of making me a cup of tea if he disturbs me when his alarm goes off for work

Greydove28 · 22/12/2020 16:11

Scottish or Northern Ireland accent

BikeRunSki · 22/12/2020 16:11

A man in a kilt, particularly an actual Scot.

SleepingStandingUp · 22/12/2020 16:15

South African accent

Eyes that you can fall into - not a particular colour but just big ones with depth

Sense of humour. Which is tricky as there's lots of stuff I don't find funny

Bence69 · 22/12/2020 16:16

@Namechangeme87

Fellow hand and forearm appreciators I hear you Grin

Tall with a good build
Nice smile
Funny

Can’t beat a good forearm especially a tanned one. Tattoos & blue eyes
Butchyrestingface · 22/12/2020 16:17

These days, hair. And a beard.

♫. Gittin' old

Cherrysoup · 22/12/2020 16:18

Being able to do something I can’t. My DH stripped down the dash of his car and fixed the air con. Phwoar! 😍

TheHobbitMum · 22/12/2020 16:19

Manly hands, they have to have a certain look Grin

TaraR2020 · 22/12/2020 16:30

Ah yes, the strong, exposed forearms while driving a car Grin

A rugby players thigh muscles and a strong broad chest, with just the right amount of chest hair

A deep voice, flawless manners and a twinkle in the eye will make me forget all that in a moment though!

MistyGreenAndBlue · 22/12/2020 16:34

Cake. I'm beyond help now Grin

LolaSmiles · 22/12/2020 16:39

Nice eyes and have a range of interests. I'd hate to feel I had to limit my hobbies for a man who wants me to sit at home all day with him.

I also like men who manage to look after themselves and their home. A man could be funny and attractive but if I had to remind him to load the dishwasher or ask him to put the laundry in he'd suddenly become most unattractive.

1992serpent · 22/12/2020 16:45

Symmetrical face, bronze skin and sorry if its tmi but big cock and balls.

OurChristmasMiracle · 22/12/2020 16:49

Certain aftershaves
The way one man I know looks at me like he’s just amazed by me
Forehead kisses

FastFood · 22/12/2020 16:50

Big (like, BIG) brown eyes, black hair and if the eyes are far apart it's even better.
And a clean, minimalist tidy flat / house.

Overwhelmed245 · 22/12/2020 16:50

Big muscly arms 😍

Noshowlomo · 22/12/2020 16:50

Saying “I’m off out on so and so night and I’ve asked my mam to have the baby so you can have a night on your own”

SunscreenCentral · 22/12/2020 16:57

Dark hair and eyes
Tall-ish
Proportional body
French accent

Janegrey333 · 22/12/2020 16:59

@SnowDogFarts

Alex Turner, just yeah!
Totally get that. God, he is sexy, these days. Liked cute young Alex too. Obv.
EmmanuelleMakro · 22/12/2020 17:01
This
EmmanuelleMakro · 22/12/2020 17:04

And Richard Armitage

Juliecloud · 22/12/2020 17:06

The way Giovanni looks at Ranvir.

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