I don't think anyone is disputing that Plenty of people on this thread are disputing that though.
She was so ground down that she was fearful and felt she had no choice according to some.
She couldn’t get help because she needed to protect her children....
She knew that if she left he would kill her as well as the children.
And so the excuses keep coming.
Fact is that if she was afraid of being killed herself then she was prepared to sacrifice her children to save herself. it doesn’t matter that neither of them intended to kill the children. They did.
he wasn’t intending to kill the children either, but he did.
It’s irrelevant what the intention is if the possibility is there. Setting fire to the house always meant that there was a chance the children would die. There are well documented cases of children dying in house fires, so it wasn’t a first here. And yet they both still did it, knowing that, while they didn’t intend to kill the children, there was a chance that they would.
If you drink and get into a car you may do so not intending to hit someone and kill them, but the fact you’re under the influence of alcohol makes that possibility considerably higher. Do we say of a drink driver who has killed someone “they didn’t intend to do it.”?