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To think the MN covid sleuthing is pathetic

63 replies

GoldfishParade · 20/11/2020 09:56

OP: I was at a busy restaurant last night and the waiter was rude to me
Posters: Where are you that allows busy restaurants? You clearly arent respecting lockdown

  1. Not everyone lives in the UK
  2. Why do you care?
OP posts:
Whatwouldscullydo · 20/11/2020 09:58

Restraunts were way way way down on the list of places people were traced back to anyway...

Time for people to start concentrating on what they re doing and stop worrying about everyone else

ImNotMeImSomeoneElse · 20/11/2020 10:02

Yanbu. Especially as not everywhere in the UK is in lockdown.

MissBaskinIfYoureNasty · 20/11/2020 10:04

Yanbu, its lame.

Meepmeeep · 20/11/2020 10:07

Especially when in Scotland, you can still go to any non essential store, to the gym, beauty salons etc. With the exception of parts of the west coast. People just jump on you with ‘we are in a pandemic you know.’ Aye, we are, but I’m in a level 2 area so we have some freedoms - not many but better off than England - for now.

Crappyfridays7 · 20/11/2020 11:22

What is only and exception in the west coast?...
The majority of the central belt is in lockdown from 6pm tonight except Falkirk/edinburgh

VerySadPandaBear · 20/11/2020 11:24

Yanbu, it's annoying. In Australia they are living fairly normal lives. It also derails the conversation

borntohula · 20/11/2020 11:29

Utterly pathetic. Sometimes I think that covid-related lockdowns have been the highlights of some people's entire lives. They obviously don't have meaningful social lives, don't enjoy doing much outside the home, don't understand that fresh air and exercise is healthy, etc. then I get off mumsnet and realise that real life isn't actually full of those people, thankfully.

MaxNormal · 20/11/2020 11:30

Oh god yes it does my tits in.

satnighttakeaway · 20/11/2020 11:33

@VerySadPandaBear

Yanbu, it's annoying. In Australia they are living fairly normal lives. It also derails the conversation
The number os threads started by Australians during UK awake hours has got to be tiny, f you're posting from a territory with only a small number of active members you really need to include that info in your OP

Does anyone read a thread that involves a restaurant and think, oh my yeah, that's OK they probably live in oz Confused

BeyondsConstantBangingHeadache · 20/11/2020 11:35

Everyone may not be in the UK, but assuming England is "the UK" is a tad myopic.

Signed,
NI, Scotland and Wales.

BeyondsConstantBangingHeadache · 20/11/2020 11:36

Does anyone read a thread that involves a restaurant and think, oh my yeah, that's OK they probably live in oz

Grin Perhaps not specifically Oz, but I would assume they lived somewhere that wasn't England.

JanQi · 20/11/2020 11:36

What gets me is that if someone is posting about going to a restaurant then isn't it bloody obvious that they're either not in England or referring to a time when they were open (which was only a couple of weeks ago!)

People are the worst.

Shinyletsbebadguys · 20/11/2020 11:38

YANBU

Recently I've seen the equivalent of

" I went to the shop to buy a skirt when suddenly aliens landed picked me up , transported me to their home planet qwrgh and gave me dinner and took me home in time for strictly "

And the first response is

" How are you buying the non essential skirt in lockdown ?" Hmm

Seriously though I've seen it with people with a really quite serious issue and it's the first thing that some challenge....it actually is quite worrying to laser like obsession with lockdown rules above anything else.

thevassal · 20/11/2020 11:44

YES!!!! And the embarrassing thing is (for the sleuthers that is) that in their eagerness to be the genius that spots the apparent covid inaccuracies they always manage to miss a key sentence that says "A few weeks ago" or "a party (just for our family bubble" or similar. And that's in addition to the arrogant assumption that every poster on MN is in England and therefore in lockdown.

But reading comprehension is pretty low on mn in general....there are always people who are so keen to jump in they can't even be arsed to properly read the opening paragraph let alone any of OPs subsequent updates.which puzzles me because I'm sure I spent nearly every single sodding English lesson between 1995-2006 "reading the text and then answering the questions"!!!

AgentCooper · 20/11/2020 11:46

@borntohula

Utterly pathetic. Sometimes I think that covid-related lockdowns have been the highlights of some people's entire lives. They obviously don't have meaningful social lives, don't enjoy doing much outside the home, don't understand that fresh air and exercise is healthy, etc. then I get off mumsnet and realise that real life isn't actually full of those people, thankfully.
This with massive fucking bells on
LondonStone · 20/11/2020 11:55

YANBU! I’ve just been reading a thread from a poster in Australia and she mentioned going out for drinks and a meal and the replies were just insane. And even once she clarified she lives elsewhere, it was “well you still shouldn’t be going out for drinks anyway we’re in the middle of a pandemic”. Oh, fuck off.

TicTacTwo · 20/11/2020 12:05

Yanbu
People forget that Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland have different rules.

IceIceCoffee · 20/11/2020 12:24

It just ruins a post it seems we can’t have any posts without someone saying oh but Covid

GoldfishParade · 20/11/2020 12:26

@LondonStone

Yeah I was reading the one about a senior professional who had dinner with her male colleague. The latters DW had a problem with this. It could have been an interesting thread, instead it was full of "why are you having dinners when we are in lockdown" until finally she was like...I'm in NZ.

OP posts:
LondonStone · 20/11/2020 12:33

@GoldfishParade Yes! Grin Sorry, I couldn’t remember if the poster said Australia or New Zealand but the replies were something else!

“Irrelevant. You most certainly shouldn’t be having “boozy nights out” and “big dinners” during a pandemic.” HmmHmm

mylittleyumyum · 20/11/2020 12:33

So tedious, I've had to temporarily leave a few FB pages I follow (mainly hllwalking/Munro related) due to every thread being 'policed' by someone asking where the poster travelled from.

Pathetic.

VerySadPandaBear · 20/11/2020 12:41

@satnighttakeaway but that's exactly my point. Unless the thread is covid related, it's got nothing to do with the conversation. It just derails it.

Bibidy · 20/11/2020 12:44

Agreed, it's so boring. Hate when people derail threads like that.

Neron · 20/11/2020 12:45

Agree with you. Same responses as well, about how selfish you are and that you're killing granny. There's a pandemic don't you know Hmm

borntohula · 20/11/2020 13:24

@Neron

Agree with you. Same responses as well, about how selfish you are and that you're killing granny. There's a pandemic don't you know Hmm
I think you'll find the phrase is 'stupid and selfish.' There ought to be some sort of Coronavirus bingo...
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