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to ask how many people you've snogged?

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kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:04

inspired by a response in my earlier thread about being bored of snogging I was surprised that I seemed to have had very few compared to others? For me its 8 -5 boys and 3 girls I thought that was an average amount but apparently not. if its not TMI what about you?

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TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 20/11/2020 01:05

Loads! I think by the end of school almost everyone in my group (approx 20 people) had snogged everyone else at least once, plus randoms. Then 4 years of uni, clubbing at least 2/3 times a week, snogging more randoms just about every time. And I’ve snogged 4 girls that I remember and quite possibly another couple that I don’t. Then I met DH.

Dinosauratemydaffodils · 20/11/2020 01:07

Pretty sure I had over a hundred on my list before I left school. That's before I got into snogging guys (and pretty girls) for drinks at University. Hogmanay in Edinburgh as well also in the 90s. Kissed a lot of policemen I seem to remember. Lots of clubbing and young farmers barn dances too. Kissed my way into trouble rather a lot, I remember quite a few (mostly military) who thought snogging showed a desire for something else which wasn't on the table.

Probably around 500 to 600 different people. Something happened when I was 21 which put an end to my snogging (until I met dh) so that's from 14 to 21.

RainbowMum11 · 20/11/2020 01:11

Loads - I wouldn't have a clue really.
And who says 'snogged' - is this a teenager who is self isolating??

kamala4prez · 20/11/2020 01:12

I thought I was a good snogger too (got some compliments from bf and my friends) but clearly I haven't had nearly as much practice as @LaBodDelMed @Hurtandupset2 @HollaHolla and @Cheeseycheeseycheesecheese you all must have told that

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kamala4prez · 20/11/2020 01:14

@RainbowMum11 well what would you say instead?

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kamala4prez · 20/11/2020 01:17

@TooExtraImmatureCheddar

Loads! I think by the end of school almost everyone in my group (approx 20 people) had snogged everyone else at least once, plus randoms. Then 4 years of uni, clubbing at least 2/3 times a week, snogging more randoms just about every time. And I’ve snogged 4 girls that I remember and quite possibly another couple that I don’t. Then I met DH.
@TooExtraImmatureCheddar explain to me about your school class I'm confused Confused
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RainbowMum11 · 20/11/2020 01:18

I wouldn't ask the question! What does it matter how many people you have kissed?

Bobtheshark · 20/11/2020 01:21

100’s probably. I’ve no idea.

Dillo10 · 20/11/2020 01:21

Erm hundreds

DemiFrancaise · 20/11/2020 01:31

I used to keep a written list in my teens (that I still have!) - it got up to about 200, by the time I was 20 (I started young!!) and then met DH and we’ve been together 20 years.

I also remember a busy Hogmanay night in Edinburgh Smile
I went backpacking a couple of times in my late teens and nightclubbing a lot in mid 90s. Kissing your girl mates was definitely a big thing for a while back then.

Growing up was a lot of fun!

OzziePopPop · 20/11/2020 01:41

Hundred + but I’ve never kept count. I had fun in my 20s 😁

BashfulClam · 20/11/2020 01:49

Loads usually pulled one a week on a night out. Only slept with 6 people though.

hilariousnamehere · 20/11/2020 01:50

Two Grin both men, both men I loved, both longish relationships. Now happily long term single!

seayork2020 · 20/11/2020 02:00

3 men

FlushiTheSnowman · 20/11/2020 02:01

5

insomnmaniac · 20/11/2020 02:06

Probably about 10

Onjnmoeiejducwoapy · 20/11/2020 02:13

I’ve only had a period of 6 years of kissing, and I’d say maybe 60-80?

I’m not particularly adventurous, this would be: dates that went nowhere—like you song at the end but don’t bother seeing again (maybe 10), dated/hooked up (maybe 30), casual kissing in clubs (maybe 25-40?)

minou123 · 20/11/2020 02:19

Only god knows. Grin

Many moons ago, we had a game fir freshers week at uni.
You scored so many points for snogging freshers, 2nd years etc and headline acts.
Then so many points for shaging freshers , 2nd years etc and headline acts.

I won.

StarlightLady · 20/11/2020 03:03

Absolutely no idea! Nobody told me to keep a note! Well into double figures and both genders. And proud of it!

StarlightLady · 20/11/2020 03:19

PS: lt’s around 3:00 am and can’t sleep. Anybody up. Wouldn’t mind a snog right now. Gender not important. Clean teeth, deodorant or nice perfume required and hold me too! Wink

theblackparade · 20/11/2020 03:34

About a hundred. I can’t believe the behaviour me and my friends used to got up to in nightclubs! Especially now with covid; I wouldn’t want to shake hands with a stranger at the moment, let alone snog them!

CaptainCabinets · 20/11/2020 04:56

I hope you’re all enjoying being OP’s wank fodder Confused

Surely it’s not just me who thinks this is a man who has posted hoping to hear stories about women kissing women?

yelyah22 · 20/11/2020 05:55

Comfortably over 100, by how much I've no idea!

MrTumblesSpottyHag · 20/11/2020 06:18

Probably hundreds. When we used to go out drinking the main objective was to get ratarsed and snog randoms on the dance floor 😂

MrTumblesSpottyHag · 20/11/2020 06:25

Ooh, we used to wear those shot glass necklace things tucked down our cleavages.
Men would pour in a bit of their drink, we'd down it, give them a snog and move along the bar.

Free drinks!

I don't know how I survived tbh 😵

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