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to ask how many people you've snogged?

402 replies

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:04

inspired by a response in my earlier thread about being bored of snogging I was surprised that I seemed to have had very few compared to others? For me its 8 -5 boys and 3 girls I thought that was an average amount but apparently not. if its not TMI what about you?

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SenorFrog · 19/11/2020 23:26

No idea why I said "I didn't really get married" lol

ComtesseDeSpair · 19/11/2020 23:27

Loads. Hundreds. Too many to remember. I have a large and very tactile social group and we all enjoy a good kiss with each other now and again and I’m still a big fan of kissing strangers in nightclubs and at festivals.

Like sexual partners, I don’t think there’s an “average”, is there. If you are naturally quite reserved you’ll probably have kissed fewer people than those who are more open and go with the flow. If you think proper kissing with tongues should only be for romantic partners or people you really fancy then you’ll have kissed fewer people than somebody like me for whom it’s more a really enjoyable sexy bonding thing.

HollaHolla · 19/11/2020 23:27

Yes OP. It’s people. Think about it this way. If you were single for about 1/2 the years between 15 & 30, then that’s 7.5 years of random snogging. Then in that time you snog one person every 2 weeks. That’s 25 people per year. Multiply by 7.5. Gives you 186 people. That’s a rough way of estimating. 🤷🏻‍♀️😘

FourTeaFallOut · 19/11/2020 23:27

No idea...a lot...fucking heaps

Housewoes23 · 19/11/2020 23:28

Haven't got a clue.

terrelontane · 19/11/2020 23:28

Two - some dickhead with terrible stubble and my DH.

IntoP20 · 19/11/2020 23:29

Shit loads

Closingtime94 · 19/11/2020 23:29

More than I can remember - sex is easy to remember, snogging not so much Grin

Queenofthemadouse · 19/11/2020 23:30

Couldn't even begin to think about it!

FizzyPink · 19/11/2020 23:30

God loads. I think I’ve slept with maybe 40ish so much more than that

Alldressedup · 19/11/2020 23:31

Definitely well into the 100s. Like @HollaHolla said, in my younger days it wasn’t a night out without snogging someone. And I’d often go out 3-4 times a week. Great fun. Haven’t snogged anyone other than DH for 18 years now.

FlumpetCrumpet · 19/11/2020 23:31

No idea, loads!

I used to to love getting off with people in night clubs, so once a week ish for 4 ish years somewhere between 100 and 200? Not much of a shagger but a good snog was part of a night out for me 20 years ago.

Bloody hell, 20 years 😱

YellowandGreenToBeSeen · 19/11/2020 23:31

Well over a hundred - Good times!

cabinbythelake20 · 19/11/2020 23:32

About 100 😲 this is awful but we used to do competitions who could snog the most guys in one night! (I was about 17 or 18?) Im sure that would have been about 10 in one night. I cant think of anything worse than this now! Ohhhh how vile

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:33

more details on mine are

  1. my first French kiss-
2.1st proper bf
  1. 2nd bf-crap snogger
4-6.my lady friends- fab kissers 7.3rd bf-my last good Frenchie 8.latest bf- great smoocher
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newnewnewbuild · 19/11/2020 23:34

Not sure - maybe about a dozen, but I've been with my DH since I was 15. If we hadn't have met so young it would be waaaaaay higher.

NC4Now · 19/11/2020 23:34

Plenty. I don’t think I could count, but I might try just to help me get to sleep. It’ll never be accurate though.
Sex is a different ballgame - I could give a modest number there (under 20) but snogging...
Ahh, that’s the thing I miss most about 2020 actually...

AlrightTreacle · 19/11/2020 23:35

wow I do you all know I mean how many people? not individual times
surely it cant be this many!

I suspect you are a fair bit younger than a lot of people who are posting on here?

LaurieFairyCake · 19/11/2020 23:35

Hundreds - I'd guess 200+

arethereanyleftatall · 19/11/2020 23:35

Hundreds and possibly thousands

GreenlandTheMovie · 19/11/2020 23:35

I've always gone for quality over quantity, so I think only about 20. That doesnt seem very high, considering the men I've encountered seem to take a pride in being good at it, and rightly so.

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:35

@HollaHolla
thanks think I've really shown myself up here haha!

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kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:36

@AlrightTreacle I'm in my early thirties

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Cwenthryth · 19/11/2020 23:38

Lol, absolutely no idea. Slept with somewhere about 70 or 80 I think; so definitely snogged hundreds. And probably hundreds. And I don’t think that’s particularly unusual or spectacular if you’ve spent any significant time single and free in your 20s/30s like I did backpacking/travelling and recreational dating in a big city. I am probably older than you OP Grin and have had happy LTRs too. Not planning on snogging anyone apart from DP now.

AlrightTreacle · 19/11/2020 23:39

Oh, same age range as me then. Have you never kissed a stranger on a night out?

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