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to ask how many people you've snogged?

402 replies

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:04

inspired by a response in my earlier thread about being bored of snogging I was surprised that I seemed to have had very few compared to others? For me its 8 -5 boys and 3 girls I thought that was an average amount but apparently not. if its not TMI what about you?

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WishICouldThinkOfAGoodName · 23/11/2020 09:44

Over 100

WithGusto2 · 23/11/2020 15:16

Bloody loads! I miss snogging DH isn’t actually very good at it, makes up for it in other ways so that’s ok.

VulvaPerson · 23/11/2020 16:55

I didn't think anybody had actually had played either or them in real life thought it was just made up Hollywood stuff

Have played both at various points in my youth.

One particularly memorable spin the bottle game ended in my best mate cutting off the end of his little toe, after spinning the bottle after it banged into the table and broke the end, and resulted in my lovely cream carpets (maybe my own fault) getting soaked in blood Hmm

kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 17:25

How embarrassing
Was he ok?

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kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 17:25

@praepondero

I know the number of girls, 3, but chaps, absolutely no idea. Dozens and dozens and..... Bored of snogging DH though, however, thus has ever been so with him. I do wonder if at the beginning of a relationship the overload of oxytocin blinds us to many traits in partners that we'd find quite repulsive once the fog clears? Often too bloody late Hmm .
I think you are dead right about oxytocin6
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Belladonna12 · 23/11/2020 17:28

I'm surprised people can count. I know how many people have slept with but snogging is more forgettable.

VulvaPerson · 23/11/2020 17:29

He was fine, after his nurse sister turned up and stitched him Blush We were lucky, as would have felt really shit using hospital time for something that was entirely avoidable if we just had more sense and less alcohol in our systems!

That mistake cost me 700 quid though, so not quickly forgotten!

Fleetwoodmacs · 23/11/2020 17:31

20-30 I think. It's hard to remember now I've been with my partner so long!

kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 17:39

@VulvaPerson £700 ouch
That wouldn't happen in the movies lol

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Autumncolourlover · 23/11/2020 17:45

Ive missed out it seems as it's only 4 more than I've slept with and that's somewhere between 10 and 20. I've never randomly snogged anyone. I feel deprived.

kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 17:46

@rumandbiscuits

It's in the 20s not 100% how much exactly bare in mind I have been with my current partner for nearly 8 years and been with him since I was 20. This might sound cringing but has anyone had a kiss that you will never forget? In a good way? Like the best kiss you have ever had. Or have they all snowballed into one?
I wish I had a good story for this one sigh
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kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 17:46

@Autumncolourlover you and me both

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kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 19:11

@Zoflorabore
That book idea is so cute
I love it

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rosegoldivy · 23/11/2020 19:21

My snog number is also well into the hundreds and hundreds. We used to drink straight vodka and then go to the under 18's nightclubs in Glasgow where the whole object of the night was to snog as many boys as we could. We used to snog 10+ boys a night and used to all dare each other what boys to snog.

kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 19:38

@rosegoldivy
Scotland really is the place to beWink
I was never a big clubber is it still like that now?
are you talking proper snogs or just smooches? I dont think I could Tongue kiss a random
Feels too familiar

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rosegoldivy · 23/11/2020 20:35

@kamala4prez oftt were talking over 15 years ago when I was going to the under 18s (don't know how coz I am clearly not a day over 25) I wish I honestly haven't stepped foot in a nightclub in at least 5 years but my clubbing days in my 20s were my fav 😂😂
(Ashamed to admit, there was defo tounges. 🤮)

AuntyMabelandPippin · 23/11/2020 21:55

@rumandbiscuits I had one lad that literally just opened his mouth on mine and left it there. Never bothered with him again. I still remember it forty years later.

My DH is a lovely kisser. One good reason for keeping him. Grin

kamala4prez · 23/11/2020 22:20

[quote AuntyMabelandPippin]@rumandbiscuits I had one lad that literally just opened his mouth on mine and left it there. Never bothered with him again. I still remember it forty years later.

My DH is a lovely kisser. One good reason for keeping him. Grin[/quote]
🤮Glad I've not had a kiss like that
Maybe I should start a thread about worst kisses
Haha

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kamala4prez · 24/11/2020 10:34

[quote rosegoldivy]@kamala4prez oftt were talking over 15 years ago when I was going to the under 18s (don't know how coz I am clearly not a day over 25) I wish I honestly haven't stepped foot in a nightclub in at least 5 years but my clubbing days in my 20s were my fav 😂😂
(Ashamed to admit, there was defo tounges. 🤮) [/quote]
@rosegoldivy dont be ashamed of getting some action girlSmile
No one will be back in night clubs for a long time

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ShinyMe · 24/11/2020 20:11

God, I miss snogging. It's been bloody years.

inappropriateraspberry · 25/11/2020 09:49

My best song was when I was 17. It was like a movie! We were stood in the rain and he held my head in his hands and it was a proper smooch/snog! I'll never forget it......

jeppyjop · 25/11/2020 09:57

Around 100 people, maybe more. I'm 26 :/

Whattheactual20201 · 25/11/2020 10:00

I’m 28 and 2 🤣🤣

Isthisnothing · 25/11/2020 10:02

Absolutely no idea, hundreds, thousands. I don't know how many people I've slept with either, 50-100 I'd guess.

Isthisnothing · 25/11/2020 10:08

@inappropriateraspberry

My best song was when I was 17. It was like a movie! We were stood in the rain and he held my head in his hands and it was a proper smooch/snog! I'll never forget it......
Oh I've just remembered one of these! It was amazing. It was one of those situations that you let yourself daydream about then scold yourself for being pathetic - the one that got away turns up, begs and begs for another chance, tells you you fantasised he would... I argued and argued about why I wouldn't give him another chance then realised I just couldn't be bothered anymore.

We walked outside holding hands then kissed and kissed for such a long time. It began raining and I didn't care.

It was inevitably nonsense and he disappeared off on me again in exactly the same fashion as before but that is beside the point 😄

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