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to ask how many people you've snogged?

402 replies

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:04

inspired by a response in my earlier thread about being bored of snogging I was surprised that I seemed to have had very few compared to others? For me its 8 -5 boys and 3 girls I thought that was an average amount but apparently not. if its not TMI what about you?

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Mommabear20 · 20/11/2020 20:22

4 men

inappropriateraspberry · 20/11/2020 20:29

God knows. My record was 10 in one night!

SpamIAm · 20/11/2020 20:34

Just told my DH about this thread and he said "I guess 8 is quite low is it? I think mine's probably higher than that but not much". I ended the conversation there 😂

LoveMyKidsAndCats · 20/11/2020 20:34

Mines like.... 6

Watsername · 20/11/2020 20:36

3

Newmumatlast · 20/11/2020 20:44

maybe 30 men and 2 women.

Honeycomb129 · 20/11/2020 20:48

Shit loads. I snogged about 8-10 men in one night so probably in the 100s definitely

Greygreenblue · 20/11/2020 21:09

I’m amazed that some people can give specific numbers. I think around 50 for me but I honestly wasn’t keeping count.

Also they were all boys/men. Kissing girls just never appealed to me.

WildRosie · 20/11/2020 21:10

None. Zero. Nowt.

Next question...

Spongebobsquarefringe · 20/11/2020 21:13

No idea 🤷🏼‍♀️

A good few before I settled down. Like someone said up ⬆️ sad of never having that first snog thrill/excitement. One always stands out, he got away 😂

lovepickledlimes · 20/11/2020 21:17

Two. Lol I did get one kiss on the cheek too when I was 8. I got so scared I bolted back to my parents

ibblebibbledibble · 20/11/2020 21:19

Hundreds 🤣 couldn’t even begin to guess!

MerryGoRoundBrain · 20/11/2020 21:43

Many many many and then some more. Only 4 girls though. Interestingly enough, never snogged a woman on a night out. Theses have all been very passionate encounters, when friendships were taken a step further.

frustrationcentral · 20/11/2020 21:47

Probably about 20? Blush

MarjorytheTrashHeap · 20/11/2020 21:48

God, I couldn't even begin to count! One memorable new year's eve some friends and I decided to make it a competition and I reached over 30. I wouldn't like to say they were all of an especially high quality. It's amazing I never got Glandular Fever or something. I did used to enjoy a good snog, back in the day.

jambeforeclottedcream · 20/11/2020 21:53

@WhySoSensitive

Fucking hundreds.
What I opened this thread to say Wink
jambeforeclottedcream · 20/11/2020 21:56

Should clarify
I love a proper snog - top 10 things about lockdown.

I had a good time at uni and I prefer snogging to sex

jambeforeclottedcream · 20/11/2020 21:57

@Whatwouldscullydo

I do have a question for people who have kissed lots of random people on nights out - how does it happen? I get that people are drunk, but I have been drunk on nights out and have never ended up kissing anyone. Too shy to approach anyone and nobody ever approached me. Do you see someone you fancy kissing, approach them, talk to them, do some flirting and just try kissing them? Or does it at some point become clear somehow that you both want to kiss? Or does someone approach you and start flirting?

Well to be fair some weren't exactly consensual. And well some are just part of an escape plan

I remember it more being about dancing with some guy probably some song by Rihanna and one thing leading to another ...
Whatwouldscullydo · 20/11/2020 22:00
Grin

I seemed very good at accidentally getting into these situations...less good at getting back out of them.

marvellousnightforamooncup · 20/11/2020 22:16

I have absolutely no idea. Most were extremely forgettable.

RainbowsAndFrogs · 20/11/2020 22:16

4 :/

Elbels · 20/11/2020 22:21

I love my boyfriend but god I used to love going out drunken snogging so much. The thrill of catching someone's eye and kissing later in the night. I'd choose that over sex!

Echobelly · 20/11/2020 22:23

10 or 11 I think. 2 boyfriends (1 one of whom is now DH), 1 FWB, rest blokes at uni/in clubs/at gigs.

CreamFirstThenJamOnTop · 20/11/2020 22:25

I don’t know but I’d guess around 15 ish?

Been with DH for 10 years, 2 other relationships before that with a few flings in between. I’ve only snogged a couple of people on nights out etc.... they’ve mostly been people I’ve dated or been in a relationship with.

Graffitiqueen · 20/11/2020 22:37

Loads! Couldn't count.

At secondary school we played this game called city gates at school discos where the girls made an arch in a circle and the boys walked underneath and when the music stopped you snogged who you caught. Then swapped over. Would not be allowed today!!!

Then in the local night club (small town) they would play slow dances at the end and you found someone to snog.

Then there was university when a night wasn't complete without a snog!!!