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to ask how many people you've snogged?

402 replies

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:04

inspired by a response in my earlier thread about being bored of snogging I was surprised that I seemed to have had very few compared to others? For me its 8 -5 boys and 3 girls I thought that was an average amount but apparently not. if its not TMI what about you?

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KittenCalledBob · 21/11/2020 18:51

I would say around 50-60. Most of them when I was at uni.

Silversun83 · 21/11/2020 19:12

Also no idea!! My first kiss wasn't until I was 18, but I made up for it at uni! Agree that snogging randoms was a night out past-time.. When I think about it now, the hygiene aspect is crazy! No wonder Covid did its rounds in halls.

Though probably fewer than 50... And as for going further, just the one!

hopefulhalf · 21/11/2020 19:17

Total guess between 50 and 100.
Just the one girl though (wish I'd tried harder).Grin

WhatTheFuckHappenedHere · 21/11/2020 19:20

I’m sure the hairy handed will enjoy this

MintyCedric · 21/11/2020 19:38

11 boys/men that I can remember but definitely more in total...20 odd?

2 women

RolandSchitt · 21/11/2020 20:32

No bloody idea. More than 20, but less than 100?!

IrishMumSW19 · 21/11/2020 21:48

OP you sound really creepy. Just too many questions. I’m getting a distinct picture of a hairy guy in an attic salivating over a greasy laptop.

movingonup20 · 21/11/2020 22:11

Single digits, most last year when I was old (met exh young only had one previous boyfriend) but being middle aged brain I don't actually remember how many men I went on dates with Blush but none got to come home until I met dp!

CharityRoyall · 21/11/2020 22:45

60ish...the main thing I miss about being single, I used to love a good snog with someone new!

kamala4prez · 22/11/2020 11:02

Sorry for lack in responses Ive been enrolling in Edinburgh uni haha
For all those who kissed randoms in clubs
How do you do it?
I was never that confident

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inappropriateraspberry · 22/11/2020 11:06

I'm drunk, he's drunk - we like the look of each other, you kiss then go get another drink!

krj2608 · 22/11/2020 11:08

4 😂 not that many really

First boyfriend
A guy I went on a few dates with
A girl for a dare 😂
My husband

krj2608 · 22/11/2020 11:09

Actually tell a lie, just remembered one drunken snog- make that 5 😂

ComeOnBabyHauntMyBubble · 22/11/2020 11:13

Couldn't even tell you an exact number for the people I've had sex with, much less all the ones I've kissed.

kamala4prez · 22/11/2020 11:16

@inappropriateraspberry I guess I am not forward enough to just go for it like that
You would have to ask if they fancied a snog at least surely?

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hopefulhalf · 22/11/2020 11:17

Surely a random in a night club is the easiest, no skin in the game at all. Asking someone out yes nervewrecking, but a drunken snog- no problem

inappropriateraspberry · 22/11/2020 11:22

[quote kamala4prez]@inappropriateraspberry I guess I am not forward enough to just go for it like that
You would have to ask if they fancied a snog at least surely?[/quote]
No I don't recall ever asking! Sometimes I'd just walk past them and we'd catch each other's eye, snog, then I'd carry on walking. Probably alcohol, youth and confidence had a lot to do with it! I think it was just how it was done then - late 90s/early 00s.
God I miss snogging in clubs!

HmmSureJan · 22/11/2020 11:30

You would have to ask if they fancied a snog at least surely?

I never have. You both just know ime.

Original question: too many to count.

hopefulhalf · 22/11/2020 11:40

Yes late 90's early noughties here too. MDMA may have had something to do with it.

Sickofmysalary · 22/11/2020 12:19

I miss snogging ransoms tbh! Great way to pass an evening Grin

Rosehassometoes · 22/11/2020 12:20

60-100

kamala4prez · 22/11/2020 12:49

@hopefulhalf 🤣 Haha that explains it
Seriously I'm stunned by peoples numbers and how big this thread has gotten lol

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VulvaPerson · 22/11/2020 12:51

Absolutely no clue, maybe about a hundred? Realy have never thought to keep track of this!

VulvaPerson · 22/11/2020 12:52

Also much of it MDMA induced Grin As has been mentioned.

I snogged most of my mates at one time or another..didn't really fancy any either, was just..done for some reason.

Mammylamb · 22/11/2020 12:54

Probably hundreds. I can count on one hand the amount I’ve slept with though. Only snogged and slept with the one person for over 17 years now