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to ask how many people you've snogged?

402 replies

kamala4prez · 19/11/2020 23:04

inspired by a response in my earlier thread about being bored of snogging I was surprised that I seemed to have had very few compared to others? For me its 8 -5 boys and 3 girls I thought that was an average amount but apparently not. if its not TMI what about you?

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boon · 20/11/2020 18:24

Ive lost count! 🤣

AuntyMabelandPippin · 20/11/2020 18:26

Hundreds.

God, I used to love going out and getting off (as Geordies call it) with lads in the eighties. Just snogging before you got the bus home, fabulous.

I once went to a party with some pals and within ten minutes spent the entire party snogging on the stairs with a lad. He could kiss.

Haven't kissed any other man in 36 years.

FAIL2PREPARE · 20/11/2020 18:27

A lot, probably 80 or so. I went to an all girls school so boys were forbidden fruit at weekends Blush

lachy · 20/11/2020 18:30

Not a clue. The only person I want to snog now is DH, anyone before him has faded into obscurity.

Lardlizard · 20/11/2020 18:31

No idea lost count

RichardMarxisinnocent · 20/11/2020 18:31

I do have a question for people who have kissed lots of random people on nights out - how does it happen? I get that people are drunk, but I have been drunk on nights out and have never ended up kissing anyone. Too shy to approach anyone and nobody ever approached me. Do you see someone you fancy kissing, approach them, talk to them, do some flirting and just try kissing them? Or does it at some point become clear somehow that you both want to kiss? Or does someone approach you and start flirting?

Probably stupid questions to most of you, but as someone who has always been very shy around men, and who had their first kiss in their 40s after a few dates, a lot of flirting, and a bit of wine (with the kiss initiated by him), I can't relate to kissing random strangers.

PandemicImpact · 20/11/2020 18:42

Many many MANY snogs. I reckon over 1000. Spent my teens and early 20's in clubs/at parties 4 nights a week playing 'how many people can you snog'.

I don't think I have ever been in a club/party and not snogged someone.

I love kissing.

hullabaloo68 · 20/11/2020 18:53

Loads I'm still a big fan of snogging

BMW6 · 20/11/2020 18:56

Blimey. Many hundreds, no women though.

NeonIcedcoffee · 20/11/2020 18:57

@AgeLikeWine

No idea!

There is no way I could possibly remember every random I drunkenly snogged when I was a student. When I was young, free & single, I was free & single Blush.

Yep. This!
MadamShazam · 20/11/2020 19:06

Loads, too many to count.

PurBal · 20/11/2020 19:08

I have zero clue. But then I'm also not entirely sure how many people I've slept with, just a rough number.

Userengage · 20/11/2020 19:12

@RichardMarxisinnocent

I do have a question for people who have kissed lots of random people on nights out - how does it happen? I get that people are drunk, but I have been drunk on nights out and have never ended up kissing anyone. Too shy to approach anyone and nobody ever approached me. Do you see someone you fancy kissing, approach them, talk to them, do some flirting and just try kissing them? Or does it at some point become clear somehow that you both want to kiss? Or does someone approach you and start flirting?

Probably stupid questions to most of you, but as someone who has always been very shy around men, and who had their first kiss in their 40s after a few dates, a lot of flirting, and a bit of wine (with the kiss initiated by him), I can't relate to kissing random strangers.

All of those methods really! I was a prolific getter offer.

Went to lots of balls when I was a teen, one was called the kiss and tell ball and the girls got a sheet of paper and a pen and had to kiss as many boys as possible and get their names; I won..

ChaBishkoot · 20/11/2020 19:12

Also bringing the average down with three. High school crush. One guy at University- we dated for a bit. Then met DH. That’s it. Of the 3 I slept with two of them.
Like a PP I have no complaints.

PolarBearStrength · 20/11/2020 19:17

Oh goodness, probably hundreds tbh. I did a lot of random snogging on nights out in my teens and early 20s. And a lot of getting off with mates for fun/attention. I was a massive slut 🤷‍♀️

loubieloo4 · 20/11/2020 19:32

1, dh 🥰

grassgreenthisside · 20/11/2020 19:39

100+

riotlady · 20/11/2020 19:41

No idea, 30ish? Mix of men and women because I’m bi, not because making out with your mate is “racy” Hmm

speakout · 20/11/2020 19:42

No idea.

Chickoletta · 20/11/2020 19:43

8, I think.

Not bad though, considering that I’ve been with DH since we were 17. I had actually snogged 2 boys before I left primary school.

Whatwouldscullydo · 20/11/2020 19:43

I do have a question for people who have kissed lots of random people on nights out - how does it happen? I get that people are drunk, but I have been drunk on nights out and have never ended up kissing anyone. Too shy to approach anyone and nobody ever approached me. Do you see someone you fancy kissing, approach them, talk to them, do some flirting and just try kissing them? Or does it at some point become clear somehow that you both want to kiss? Or does someone approach you and start flirting?

Well to be fair some weren't exactly consensual. And well some are just part of an escape plan

runningthrougharedlight · 20/11/2020 19:57

Hunners! And now suddenly remembering some that I haven’t thought about in years! Good times, love a wee winch Smile

Toombumber · 20/11/2020 20:03

couple of hundred here

seriousandloyal · 20/11/2020 20:04

Omg hundreds

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