This afternoon I was making the family a pasta bake.
He comes over to inspect the way I'm layering the pasta and other ingredients and tells me I'm doing it wrong.
He remarks that it's going to be 'watery' because I put a few drops of water into the sauce jar to get out the remainder of the sauce, to minimise waste.
I tell him it won't and carry on with what I'm doing.
He then waits until I've put the food into the oven to say "I just hope it'll be alright with them tomatoes in it"
I asked what he was talking about and he said tomatoes make food 'watery'
After telling him not to be daft (it was a few cherry tomatoes, halved) he admits he didn't want tomatoes in it.
He saw me preparing them and saw them sitting on the chopping board for at least 10 minutes before I added them, yet failed to say a word.
I went to the toilet and came back to find him turning the oven up to high, I said it doesn't need to be so high it'll burn (the pasta and bacon bits had already been cooked)
To that he replied "i should have listened to myself this morning when I told myself to keep my mouth shut today and not say anything to you today"
I asked him to elaborate and he said "because of your PMS"
I do suffer from PMS but feel as though it's not at all relevant in this situation, I've been in a perfectly fine mood all day.
I bit my tongue throughout his constant critiques and interfering with my cooking.
He has aspergers and sometimes can come across really fucking rude.
Would you be upset by this or no? There are times when I seriously question the relationship.