Mother in law

[Banwell32]

So me and my partner have been togwther for three years have a baby together and we are engaged. I get on with his mum ok although i get the feeling they dont really like me. Before me my partner was with a girl for five years who his mum loves. Now here is the aibu my daughter his is one is in the kitchen brings me a magnet of mil fil my partner and his ex girlfriend in it was a magnet stuck to the fridge was seething didnt bother letting it show. I just think this proves that shes never liked me. Me and my partner have a baby ffs why is there still pictures of her all around the house! Im just upset as when by baby gets older shes going to be asking about who that lady with daddy is! So my whole aibu is am i over reating to feel this way?

@Derbee

Your latest update says it all OP. They don’t like you because they think you’re an annoying immature little brat!

Would you honestly say that to the OP's face?

It really wasn't in the least bit necessary.

@HTH1 and @PurpleFlower1983..and all these people saying "bin it". This is someone else's property. It's absolutely appalling that you think the OP (who has hardly covered herself in glory here) should steal and destroy someone else's belongings.

If someone did that to you, would you be happy?

@saraclara Honestly? As much as the OP hasn’t covered herself in glory at all, I do think it’s disrespectful to have photos of your son’s ex around when they were clearly a couple.

I wouldn’t dream of doing that in the first place as the MIL but, if I did, I would probably smile to myself (and would fully understand why) if OP did bin it.

Completely agree with @saraclara
Can't believe that there are people who think it is acceptable to steal and throw out property from the MiL's house.

My mil preferred dh's ex also. She even whispered in my ear his ex wanted his dc after we told her I was pregnant..
Her response to the news was that accidents happen!!
I backed away.
I suggest you do too op. If your dp doesn't make plans to nurture relationships between your dc and his family why should you?

@Nanny0gg I absolutely would say this to her face. If a friend was asking advice, I would point out that she’s not making things easy for herself by acting like such an entitled little child.