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AIBU colleague should quit job now that she's moved to another country?

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Waferbiscuit · 25/10/2020 12:53

In February colleague told our office that she was moving to Spain in the summer and would be resigning in the late Spring in time for the move. She wasn't happy in her role (which was more than a bit evident) and wanted a change - she was moving back home and would look for something there. She told everyone as wanted to be transparent about what was going on her life and didn't want her resignation to be a surprise.

Then Covid happened, colleague was furloughed from March and even though she DID physically move back to Spain she did not resign. She remained on furlough until this month. She's now back working remotely while living in another country.

She's now saying she won't resign and is lobbying to work remotely on a permanent basis. The rest of us will have to return to the office when we are expected to return; obviously she can't because, well, she lives across an ocean. If she gets to work from home permanently and we don't, because we actually live near to where we work, that feels deeply unfair.

Surely she's having a laugh? I know you can't force someone to resign, but surely carrying on like this isn't possible? HR don't know how to deal with these new situations so I get the impression they are treading lightly, which is not helpful.

OP posts:
topcat2014 · 31/10/2020 09:31

@user yes flexibility is fine. However an assumed medium term taking on of shit from someone else's role is not just flexibility.

user1487194234 · 31/10/2020 10:05

I wouldn't expect that,there would have to be a reorganisation of work.
So if someone takes on work previously done by someone else then they drop parts of their current tasks.

What I can't have is a " that's not my job " attitude ,people like that wouldn't last 5 minutes with me

(Just home after cleaning the Office after cleaner phoned in sick last night )

Ddot · 02/11/2020 07:25

So getting wage for working thats ok but what happens if she needs to do something in person. What happens if net goes down. I understand getting new job will be hard right now, so see where she is coming from. My advice let it ride, covid will end at some point, hopeful! And she will go, or company will find a way to terminate.

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