Gosh, this reminds me of a girl I used to know and had to get rid of, because she was just dreadful.
She would text me do you fancy meeting up today. Would say, yes. She said let's go for lunch. Can you give me a 10r. I would give it to her and never see it again. A few days later she messages me , I need to pop in to town by you. Are you doing anything. If I was free, I would say yes and say ok. She said ok can you give me a tenner as petrol isnt cheap. She would then park up in town , ask me for another 10 pounds and promise to give it back. She would then Leave me in the car for half an hour with both our small children and in the heat and it would drive me nuts. She would come back to the car after having been to the tanning salon. I'd be like seriously. I thought she had gone to grab something quickly from a near by shop. Another time , she left me and her newborn In her steaming hot car, outside a takeaway. I assumed she was just going to nip in to the takeaway to grab some food.
Again asks me for money, and runs off to get a tattoo. Then another time, we were talking and she asked me what I was upto, I said nothing just waiting on my husband to finish work and then hes picking me up to take me Tesco. She then replied, that she can take me to Tesco, as my husband was running late. We went together and she asked me for petrol, ten pounds again. I gave it to her thinking fair enough, she did take me Tesco but it's literally a 4 minute drive. The best part was she also needed to go. As she started filling up her shopping trolley with various items.
In the end, I got tired of her friendship. She was extremely jealous of me, if I was busy or out with someone else. None of my other friends would ask for petrol to meet up. I'd understand if we were going to the beach for the day and split the petrol. But why would you constantly ask me to go out and ask me for petrol when you are wanting to go there too. She was very vicious and nasty in the end. She said I was embarrassing to be seen with because I wear a hijab . If she didnt have money for things she would shop lift. She would ring me, shouting down the phone abuse and that I have just seen your husband with another woman. He wasnt. He met his cousin and his wife because his cousin owed him money. Bit by her descriptions he had met a hot blonde in the street. Rather than admit, she saw him also saw him with another man too. She would demand to come over all the time. I would tell her am busy, or spending time with my children, out, etc. She would say no you're not. She would even call me to say I have just seen you in your area so youre not really busy. She then told my neighbours my husband was beating me up when she couldn't have her way.
In the end I had to get rid.
Such a vile person. Never saw any money back. And this was roughly six years ago and am glad I have never seen her since.