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Ban the term "so-called" honour killings"

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areallthenamesusedup · 01/10/2020 22:22

Am I wrong to think that we should stop using the term as it is sugar coating murder?

Using the word 'honour'...even with the prefix 'so-called'....is dressing something as "cultural" and thus disguises that these killings are just plain & simple misogyny.

Am I wrong to think that "so called-honour killings" are just murder.

It seems to be a term in wide use but I am genuinely puzzled why it is acceptable.

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PomBearsArentNaice · 02/10/2020 14:05

@areallthenamesusedup

Am I wrong to think that we should stop using the term as it is sugar coating murder?

Using the word 'honour'...even with the prefix 'so-called'....is dressing something as "cultural" and thus disguises that these killings are just plain & simple misogyny.

Am I wrong to think that "so called-honour killings" are just murder.

It seems to be a term in wide use but I am genuinely puzzled why it is acceptable.

I agree completely with this. We need a new word for this, like using female genital mutilation rather than female circumcision.
midgebabe · 02/10/2020 14:07

Femicide?

Etinox · 02/10/2020 14:09

So agree! Haven't read the whole thread but will do. Even when it's not an excuse for 'bad things' its a dodgy concept IMO.

BillywigSting · 02/10/2020 14:13

Agree wholeheartedly.

I put it in the same camp as 'child porn' or 'child prostitution'. No. It's sexual abuse of children.

Just like 'honour killings' are murder.

Agree with a pp about the nz stance too and not giving these fuckers any fame of any description.

Mariola321 · 03/10/2020 14:25

^@Mariola321you do realise you're going to get in trouble on here for this right?
And I'm laughing at you not with you.^

Well I just speak the truth. 🤷‍♀️ Not the buddhist man doing honor killing. Seem fine to moan about violent men here but not mention the religion with violent problem.

Mariola321 · 03/10/2020 14:27

Bet not get delete for complain about Christian religion. 🤷‍♀️

Mittens030869 · 03/10/2020 14:39

I'm a Christian, but I have no difficulty calling out the Christian men who abuse women and children. My F was a devout Christian, and yet put my siblings and me through hell. There are abusive men practising all religions.

whatsyournamenow · 03/10/2020 14:44

You are so so right!

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