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Women are very powerful beings

162 replies

Sarahpaula · 01/10/2020 02:48

Hi. I am really into spirituality, and I read a lot of spiritual books. Many of these books say the same thing.

That the general reason why men are so abusive to women in this generation, is because women are in fact far, far more powerful than men, and men are afraid of how powerful women are.

This is why men spend a lot of time trying to make women feel inferior, and to forget their own power.

Men have implemented many tricks to make women forget their power by

  1. Starting religions which told women that they were inferior,
  2. Making science very dominant and male energy-based, making women forget their important spiritual powers and powers of intuition
  3. By disrespecting childbirth.
  4. by shaming menstruation, telling women it is dirty, when actually menstruation is a very important spiritual, physical and mental time for women.
  5. By degrading women in porn
  6. By keeping women out of politics.
  7. by shaming women if they do not have children. So that most women still focus primarily on child rearing.

Men have done all these things to make women forget who you really are: you are incredibly powerful beings.

Remember how powerful you are as a woman, and all of those systems of abuse will begin to change.
When one woman remembers how powerful she is, it will help all women to be freer in the future.

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Sarahpaula · 02/10/2020 22:37

Here is an article that I was just looking at online:

"Ancient cultures considered a woman’s menstrual blood sacred. In fact, blood potency deemed the idea of flushing female blood down a toilet, or throwing it in the garbage, absurd; however, over time, women were taught that their natural bodily fluids were sinful, dirty, and worthy of shame. This is why today, when women have their periods, it is a secret or they rush to the bathroom to hide their feminine products. To embrace your moon cycle and to understand its potency is every woman’s birthright.

In ancient times, women’s menstrual cycles were in sync with one another. Women would sit and bleed together, using this time to nourish themselves and each other. During their menstrual cycles, women used introspection to bring forth manifestations. It was also common for men, elders, and children to give women their own space to sit with themselves. Today, women have been disconnected from their cycles."

I know that many people are not into spirituality, so when I write this it is just my opinion, and please think whatever you want.

I read something in a book that really resonated with me. It said that menstrual blood is so precious and important, and that it is very wrong for us to be flushing it down a toilet, or putting it into the bin. That it is much better for us to collect it into a moon cup, and pour it onto plants on the Earth.
Some might say that is weird, but I think that constantly having to hide our periods, and then collecting menstrual blood on pads, and throwing them into the rubbish, is weird.

I sometimes hate to think of my precious blood in the rubbish bin , with actual rubbish.
I am going to try this on my next period, collect the blood, and pour it onto plants in the garden.

It is hard for me to even write this, as like us all I have been conditioned to: not talk about my periods, and to not talk about spirituality (because some one will think that spirituality is crazy). But I am going to write it anyway

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ShebaShimmyShake · 02/10/2020 22:43

I think Prince Charles used to talk to his plants.

Smellbellina · 02/10/2020 22:44

This seems like the kind of thing you'd tell a child "oh they're just jealous of you".

All right Bob Hmm

Menstruation is just a pain in the arse.

If you have access to Sanpro and aren’t locked in a menstruation hut maybe, if you also have access to a hot water bottle, pain killers and a free health care system, possibly not.

So OP wants to feed her tomatoes with her own menstrual blood... don’t want them on my burgers but still, she has a point.

Smellbellina · 02/10/2020 22:46

Egyptian, Nubian, Hittites, Indus Valley, Ancient Chinese, Mycenaeans, Mitanni and none of these ancient Bronze Age civilisations had that belief.

Having studied these ancient civilisations I presume you are aware you specialised and they are not the only ones?

Butterer · 02/10/2020 22:52

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Rebelwithallthecause · 02/10/2020 23:15

@Sarahpaula my friends who use mooncups pour their blood on their garden

I think it’s wonderful. It doesn’t go to waste

I’m not having periods at the moment because I’m breadwinner but I miss it

It used to be something I was ashamed of when I was younger but now I really appreciate my body and what it’s capable of

It makes me feel sad to think of all the people that just pop hormones not for contraception purposes but just to be without mensturation

I will ensure my offspring are not embaresssdabout it growing up

Rebelwithallthecause · 02/10/2020 23:16

Not breadwinner- breastfeeding! 😂

lazylinguist · 02/10/2020 23:47

But we can all agree, that many societies in history viewed menstruation as a spiritual and important time.

Hmm That doesn't mean they were right. Historically people have believed all kinds of bollocks. Just because some ancient civilisation believed something, that doesn't make it true (or relevant today). Grin

It said that menstrual blood is so precious and important

Why? Important for what? It's bodily waste. Your faeces might benefit the garden too - do you think they are precious and important?

lazylinguist · 02/10/2020 23:49

I will ensure my offspring are not embarassed about it growing up

You can be unembarrassed without going all woo and believing it has mystical powers!

Sarahpaula · 02/10/2020 23:51

@lazylinguist menstrual blood gives life, so it is more important than faeces.

But I have camped a lot and gone to the toilet in the woods loads of times anyway, it is natural.

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Butterer · 02/10/2020 23:55

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Sarahpaula · 03/10/2020 00:06

@Butterer Menstrual blood has stem cells.

Here is a scientific article:

Stem cells (SCs) play an important role in autologous and even allogenic applications. Menstrual blood discharge has been identified as a valuable source of SCs which are referred to as menstrual blood-derived stem cells (MenSCs). Compared to SCs from bone marrow and adipose tissues, MenSCs come from body discharge and obtaining them is non-invasive to the body, they are easy to collect, and there are no ethical concerns. There is, hence, a growing interest in the functions of MenSCs and their potential applications in regenerative medicine. This review presents recent progress in research into MenSCs and their potential application. Clinical indications of using MenSCs for various regenerative medicine applications are emphasized, and future research is recommended to accelerate clinical applications of MenSCs.

Source:stemcellres.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13287-018-1067-y

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Sarahpaula · 03/10/2020 00:08

Seeing as we donate blood, and they always want more blood donors, I don't know why we throw our menstrual blood away.

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DollyDoneMore · 03/10/2020 00:09

I am also very spiritual.

By which I mean I have been drinking whisky and can’t cope with the OP’s bullshit.

Sarahpaula · 03/10/2020 00:12

@DollyDoneMore so why are you here? You have wasted five minutes of your own life posting that

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DollyDoneMore · 03/10/2020 00:14

Five minutes? I type much faster than that.

Sarahpaula · 03/10/2020 00:25

@DollyDoneMore alright Dolly, you contributed a lot here. Thanks for that. Bye

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DollyDoneMore · 03/10/2020 00:39

You’re a very powerful being.

eaglejulesk · 03/10/2020 00:52

But I have camped a lot and gone to the toilet in the woods loads of times anyway, it is natural.

Oh that's just wonderful! We have a lot of trouble where I live with people doing just that, hideous.

Seeing as we donate blood, and they always want more blood donors, I don't know why we throw our menstrual blood away.

Love to know how that's going to work!!!

As for the rest of your post - you believe what you want, but please don't try and force it on the rest of us. I couldn't care less how societies in history viewed menstruation, nor would I want to sit around with a bunch of women to bleed together. Sounds like hell - and no, I'm not embarrassed by having periods, never have been.

Sarahpaula · 03/10/2020 01:29

@eaglejulesk luckily when I have camped, it has always been on my family's private ground, we own a field, with a small wooded area.

It is not a very glamorous camping spot, but I can confirm that I have only ever gone to the toilet outside on my own land.

You could have asked me that, before you had a go at me.

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GlummyMcGlummerson · 03/10/2020 01:32

Sooooo, men are abusive because of how women are? Not because they're shitheads and come from a class of alarmingly disposable people?
It's always women's fault isn't it

Lovely1a2b3c · 03/10/2020 01:32

Good points in your first post OP but not really about anything spiritual.

Sarahpaula · 03/10/2020 01:40

@GlummyMcGlummerson no it is not saying at all that men are abusive, because it is women's fault.

It is saying that men are trying to keep women down, and make women think that they are worth less, because women are actually really, really powerful beings.

Women are not doing anything wrong. Men are the ones who are doing things wrong in this generation.

But they are controlling us mentally by making us think that we are weak, inferior, not worth much.

It is when we free ourselves individually, and remember how powerful we personally are, and how powerful every single woman is, that we will all free ourselves from the current institutions of abuse.

We have to remember our power.

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hatesalons · 03/10/2020 04:27

In ancient times, women’s menstrual cycles were in sync with one another. Women would sit and bleed together, using this time to nourish themselves and each other.

Tbh I don't know how they found the time! I was always under the impression they had to work very hard to survive and didn't have the leisure time many of us enjoy today.

formerbabe · 03/10/2020 08:10

It's always women's fault isn't it

Jeez, the op didn't say that at all. It's an interesting theory which in essence is trying to explain why the patriarchy exists...

I agree that biologically, women hold more power in terms of what they offer the human race...men's physical power however wins overall. Just imagine if women held the physical power too...Men would be completely subjugated. Perhaps that's why they exploit their physical power to such an extent