Fucking hate the lot of them, the parents, the siblings, the lot. Fucking self-obsessed, arrogant twats. They think the sun shines out of their backsides and that everyone else is inferior. They treat everyone like shit. It’s the reason DH has had to “unlearn” a lot of their toxic behaviours and the reason we never go to see them. But they’re all still there, all the time, in the background, like a bad smell in life, always giving their two pence, trying their best to meddle and cause problems.
A few examples:
Mother in law bitching about me in front of me and my friends at a party. (She said her son was treated like a king when he lived with her and now not so much...and when I said he’s treated very well actually she told my friends I have a tendency to exaggerate and then laughed. My friends were all naturally shocked at the bitter old witch. DH was mortified when I told him.
Sister in laws and brother in laws do their utmost to meddle in our marriage, I think due to jealousy (we are happily married with three beautiful children). They each have a lot of personal problems and are constantly fighting with each other too, exchanging disgusting messages and swearing at each other - despite all claiming to be intelligent professional and classy people. I am disgusted by the way they speak to each other during any disagreement, their true colours come out, and they have also sworn in front of my kids in the past which DH has asked them not to do. One of the many reasons we rarely see them anymore.
They’ve been known to “advise” my DH about how he should be doing things like hiding money away from me (open a secret bank account they said) and for context this was at a time when DH had received a large pay out, which he obviously shared with me. Scheming pricks.
Always inviting DH to things without inviting me. Being all sweet to my face on the rare occasions we meet but acting like they are above me and my family and never showing any interest in me or the kids. Just DH, their “prince”. Excuse me while I vomit.
I wish I had the balls to tell them all what I really think of them! That they are utterly evil and vile human beings and I’ll be so happy if they ever just fuck right off out of our lives. But I obviously don’t have the balls so I’m ranting on here instead. Please join me! Anyone else??