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To ask how old you were when you first snogged someone

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Springiscoming20 · 11/08/2020 20:06

I’m talking propper snogging with tongues.

Was asked today by my 12yo dd and honestly couldn’t remember! Think it was somewhere around 14 but clearly wasn’t too memorable!

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Crystal87 · 11/08/2020 20:51

I was 12. It was a cousin of one of my friends. She was going out with his mate so used to go on double dates even though we didn't really speak to our "boyfriends". All a bit strange and awkward.

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HelpMeh · 11/08/2020 20:52

My very first was when I was 13 on the school field. Spin the bottle. I didn't want to kiss him but peer pressure. I was embarrassed and it was awful. Thankfully it was very brief but there was tooth clashing...
My second, which I will count as my first as I was a willing participant. Also 13. Jamie. In an alleyway near my house. I swear we were at it for a good hour. He grabbed my (fully clothed) boob Grin😂
After that it was game over. There was much snogging (plus plus) and many boys Blush Blush
I dread my step child getting to this stage (they're 12). I was up to a lot of awful stuff before I should've been.

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RichardMarxisinnocent · 11/08/2020 20:52

@Springiscoming20

RichardMarxisinnocent Was it worth the wait :)

Very much so! Smile
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PoloNeckKnickers · 11/08/2020 20:52
  1. I didn't particularly enjoy it as I found it hard to breathe!
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Time40 · 11/08/2020 20:52
  1. I'm glad there are quite a few more late starters on here - I've spent my entire life thinking I was bit slow off the mark!
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Millie2013 · 11/08/2020 20:53

13, didn’t enjoy it in the least, I just felt like I had to fit in.
Wasn’t sexually attracted to anyone for a few years after that, I wish I’d had the confidence to be myself and I’ll be telling DD the same Flowers

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bottlenose301 · 11/08/2020 20:53
  1. I was 'in Love' with him and he told me halfway through 'you're supposed to open your mouth' BlushBlush
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shinyredbus · 11/08/2020 20:54
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Friendsoftheearth · 11/08/2020 20:57

12 and it was not my choice, I was sexually assaulted afterwards, it was truly awful. I spoke to my mother about it using as much courage as I could muster, and she shrugged her shoulders and told me to stay away from him, but he followed me everywhere, and tried to do the same when I was playing in the pool. He was sixteen. It turns my stomach thinking of it now.

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Dyra · 11/08/2020 20:59
  1. I grew up incredibly sheltered though.
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CatEatCatWorld · 11/08/2020 20:59
  1. Got with my ex at 18 and he had a weird phobia about kissing (eventhough we had 3 kids 🙄) left him last year and dated a bit, didn't really like the 1st guy that kissed me, 2and and 3rd ok. But my now-DP is amazing Wink
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Littleroundsponge · 11/08/2020 20:59

14

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lakesidesummer · 11/08/2020 21:03

13, a very drunk teacher snogged me, sticking his tongue down my throat outside a xmas school assembly while I stood there bright red with embarrassment.
Was rescued by another very large teacher who lifted him off me.

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SimonJT · 11/08/2020 21:04

With a girl 16, we both had train tracks which wad risky, I also didn’t realise you could breathe at the same time.

With a boy 19, and it was like ‘ah, so thats what its meant to feel like’, although I imagine he wondered what on earth I was doing to his face.

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RozHuntleysStump · 11/08/2020 21:05
  1. The sucking! the slobber! 🤢
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AmICrazyorWhat2 · 11/08/2020 21:05

@lakesidesummer OMG that’s horrible.😧
What happened afterwards? I hope they got into huge amounts of trouble, that’s assault!

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bananacone · 11/08/2020 21:05

@lakesidesummer I presume he was immediately sacked? Shock

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bananacone · 11/08/2020 21:06

And sorry you had to go through that

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LightAsTheBreeze · 11/08/2020 21:06

About 13-14, a group of us used to play, I think it was called postman’s knock round the cul-de-sac, this was early 70s

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IncrediblySadToo · 11/08/2020 21:06

Lots of kissing between 9 (bloody hell! - but only Light kissing) and 14. Proper snogging at 14 (and MUCH 'messing around'). First enjoyable snogging (for hours on end) at 15 & Rubbish kissing but more sex at 16.

Finding it all in one package was a tough road 🤣🤣🙄







M around'

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SteelyPanther · 11/08/2020 21:06

17

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CaptainCorellisPangolin · 11/08/2020 21:07

Just after turning 15. Sort of. I didn't know what to do with my mouth so it was a short, painfully awkward exchange. Tried my first cigarette on the same day, which went better.
Didn't try again until about 18 months later, much nicer experience.

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DappledOliveGroves · 11/08/2020 21:07
  1. I was on a cross-channel ferry between Caen and Portsmouth and got chatting to a 16 year old Scottish lad named Ross. His accent was so strong I could hardly understand a word of what he said. I was dying to snog someone as felt I was getting old and so seized the moment. His tongue swirled as if it was attached to a whisk. Can't say it was the most romantic moment of my life!
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AgeLikeWine · 11/08/2020 21:07

14, at a school disco. His name was Robert, I didn’t really fancy him, but it didn’t look like I was going to get a better offer, so off we went. No idea what happened to him.

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BarbedBloom · 11/08/2020 21:08

13

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