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Who is being unreasonable here?

74 replies

mccavitythethird · 27/07/2020 10:04

The bin men for not emptying a landfill bin which is on the front drive but not at the end of the drive or the people living there for not putting it down at the end of the drive.

The bin has to be out by 9am and it was but the bin men came early at 7am and nobody was quick enough to get up, get dressed and get the bin down to the end of the drive.

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Patsypie · 27/07/2020 10:06

Put the bin out the night before. Simples.

TwoMuchTwoYoung · 27/07/2020 10:07

Ours have to be put out by 7 so I always put it out the night before.

TheCanyon · 27/07/2020 10:08

The bin owners are obviously at fault.

Ohtherewearethen · 27/07/2020 10:08

Everyone I know puts their bins out the night before to avoid this. You can't expect the bin men to enter your property to find and gather your bins because you were too late putting them out I'm afraid. YABU

contrmary · 27/07/2020 10:08

The bin men are wrong if they turned up before the time that bins have to be out by.

Round our way they often turn up early every now and then to catch people out, that way the round is done quicker.

Boom45 · 27/07/2020 10:10

Bin owners. I have to move our bin a matter of cms off our drive or they dont collect it, that's how it works isnt it? Collect bins from the road, not the drive.

Cabinfever10 · 27/07/2020 10:10

unless you have a disability and have arranged for garden collections, it is a curbside collection and if your bin is not curbside it doesn't get emptied end of.

Furrydogmum · 27/07/2020 10:10

If they came earlier than their mandated time as it were, then I suppose it is the bin men at fault - although I thought all bins had to be out by 7.. Our bin men usually come at 9ish but sometimes 7 so we always have them out ready..

mineofuselessinformation · 27/07/2020 10:11

There is usually a 'put out bins before X time' message on the council's website.

Bella2020 · 27/07/2020 10:11

If you're told by the council to have bins out by 09:00 at the latest, and the bin wagon arrived at 07:00 then its clearly not your fault. Call the council and ask for your bin to be collected.

Tinyhumansurvivalist · 27/07/2020 10:12

I've never lived anywhere where instructions weren't to have the bins out by 7am.

Resident at fault.

Gazelda · 27/07/2020 10:13

I do t see how the bin men can be accused of being unreasonable? They turned up to empty the bins which weren't at the designated place. Do you think they should have gone hunting for them?
Most people get the bins ready the night before. In fact, most local authorities ask for bins to be in place for 6/7am. I've never heard of a bin round starting at 9am.

Yesmate · 27/07/2020 10:14

If it doesn’t have to be out until 9 then you have done nothing wrong. I have never heard of it having to be out so late though. Do you mean it’s normally collected at 9 and they came earlier this morning?

mccavitythethird · 27/07/2020 10:16

@mineofuselessinformation

There is usually a 'put out bins before X time' message on the council's website.
Yes, it's 9am as I stated in my OP.
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bedtimestories · 27/07/2020 10:17

If your bin is fully within your boundary they can't take it without prior arrangement because it's technically theft because its classed as your property. Our bins have to be out by 7am

MarcelineMissouri · 27/07/2020 10:17

If the official council line is that bins must be out by 9am then it’s not the residents fault. If it is just that the bins are normally collected after 9 so that’s when they put the bins out then it is the residents fault. Either way I wouldn’t expect the bin men to have come on to my property but if it is the first set of circumstances I would be ringing and asking for my bin to be collected.

AlCalavicci · 27/07/2020 10:18

I agree it is the bin owners fault , they need to be in the designated spot here too ( no drives ) , if they had to walk up everyone's drive to find / collect the bis it would take them longer to get round , the home owner could also have a dog out so the dog may escape.
I put mine out the night before but it annoys me when other people fill / over fill it with stuff that should go in the recycling , it makes it look like I can not be arsed sorting my rubbish out .

mccavitythethird · 27/07/2020 10:18

@Gazelda

I do t see how the bin men can be accused of being unreasonable? They turned up to empty the bins which weren't at the designated place. Do you think they should have gone hunting for them? Most people get the bins ready the night before. In fact, most local authorities ask for bins to be in place for 6/7am. I've never heard of a bin round starting at 9am.
Most people get the bins ready the night before. In fact, most local authorities ask for bins to be in place for 6/7am. I've never heard of a bin round starting at 9am.

We're about 20 miles away from where they start from and the furthest point on their run apart from a couple of places.

For everybody saying I was unreasonable, am I supposed to put the bin out the night before when I know they don't normally come until after 9am and 9am is the time specified on the council website?

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GazingAndGrazing · 27/07/2020 10:20

For everybody saying I was unreasonable, am I supposed to put the bin out the night before when I know they don't normally come until after 9am and 9am is the time specified on the council website

Yes

BoggledBudgie · 27/07/2020 10:21

For everybody saying I was unreasonable, am I supposed to put the bin out the night before when I know they don't normally come until after 9am and 9am is the time specified on the council website?

Yes. Put your bins out the night before.

cariadlet · 27/07/2020 10:21

It's unfortunate that they came earlier than it says on the council website but I wouldn't blame them and certainly wouldn't complain.

The bin owner's not at fault if the bin men came before they were due but it does seem silly not to put them out the night before, especially if you don't get up early.

Apolloanddaphne · 27/07/2020 10:22

I always put mine out the night before and pretty much always they don't come until about 5pm on collection day. However one day they came at 7 am and I was glad I had put it out. Better to have it out the night before and not have to worry about it on collection day.

Rowan8 · 27/07/2020 10:23

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Message withdrawn - posted on wrong thread.

mccavitythethird · 27/07/2020 10:24

We will have to agree to disagree then. As far as I am concerned if I follow the council guidelines about when the bin has to be out then they should empty it. I have requested a collection and we will see what happens.
I do think that if they arrive early they should take the bins off the drive, it's not a long walk and they have come early.

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Shoxfordian · 27/07/2020 10:25

Why don't you just put it out the night before?